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starfycrazy123
Mar 30, 2011, 04:43 PM
Hi,
I have a crush on a guy... But he likes my BFF! And my BFF likes him to. My crush and I almost got to be Boyfriend and Girlfriend but then he liked my BFF. I CAN'T STAND THEM BEING TOGETHER! I want to pull a prank on them for April Fool's Day( this friday) AND I NEED Someone TO HELP ME WITH MY PLAN!
Thanks

Cat1864
Mar 30, 2011, 05:11 PM
This may seem harsh to you, but please think about what I am saying.

I guess she isn't your BFF if you want to mess up her chances with a boy who likes her. Wanting to pull a prank on them just because he has feelings for her instead of you is a very childish thing to even think about doing.

If you really cared about him and his feelings, you would not want to cause him pain. Same thing for your 'best friend'. Instead, it sounds like you care more about yourself and what you want. That isn't the type of person who keeps friends or boyfriends.

It may not seem like it right now, but if you stop concentrating on them and wanting to make them unhappy, you might find out there is someone else who is better for you than this person. Give yourself a chance to notice other boys who are just waiting for you to see that they are alive.

I think if you give yourself a chance to let the thought of a relationship with this boy go you will be much happier than if you ruin his, your BFF's and your lives by trying to punish them.

starfycrazy123
Mar 30, 2011, 05:15 PM
Thanks, Umm That helped me a lot... I will wait 'till I find someone else

sam3445
Apr 11, 2011, 07:15 PM
I think that is immature and is not going to help anything.