matrix7210
Mar 30, 2011, 12:50 PM
Hi,
Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes...
Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave her as she is the love of my life. Some say I spoil her too much as I am gullable buying gifts for her, taking her theatre, meals and keeping her happy. I'm also taking her for an all paid holiday to Monaco. I do everything for her, and never have hurt her. We do have ups and down but that's normal in any relationship. We have been so happy together.
Soon my brother is to get married and we have decided to go abroad on holiday as a family. There are 6/7 guys going and they are all blood brother and first cousins. We are going away for 3 days to a European country. Nothing big just few of us going away as I never been away with all my guy cousins and brother together.
Now she has a big issue with this, she thinks that I will get up to no good and betray her. She has not been talking to me properly for 4\5 days and each time we talk we are arguing because she doesn't believe me. She does believe that I am not one of those guys who will go to mess around and cheat on her. I so love her and this is not what I will do. I told her we are going with my brothers and cousins for a holiday and nothing more. I have told her I done so much for her why would I chuck it away now. I cannot cancel because it's all booked by my brother and my family is expecting me there.
I am really in love with her and want to marry her. but she is not listening to me and not cooperating. I never stopped her doing anything she wants to do. I have always been honest and I'm pouring my heart out to her.
Please help. I don't want to lose her.
Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes...
Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave her as she is the love of my life. Some say I spoil her too much as I am gullable buying gifts for her, taking her theatre, meals and keeping her happy. I'm also taking her for an all paid holiday to Monaco. I do everything for her, and never have hurt her. We do have ups and down but that's normal in any relationship. We have been so happy together.
Soon my brother is to get married and we have decided to go abroad on holiday as a family. There are 6/7 guys going and they are all blood brother and first cousins. We are going away for 3 days to a European country. Nothing big just few of us going away as I never been away with all my guy cousins and brother together.
Now she has a big issue with this, she thinks that I will get up to no good and betray her. She has not been talking to me properly for 4\5 days and each time we talk we are arguing because she doesn't believe me. She does believe that I am not one of those guys who will go to mess around and cheat on her. I so love her and this is not what I will do. I told her we are going with my brothers and cousins for a holiday and nothing more. I have told her I done so much for her why would I chuck it away now. I cannot cancel because it's all booked by my brother and my family is expecting me there.
I am really in love with her and want to marry her. but she is not listening to me and not cooperating. I never stopped her doing anything she wants to do. I have always been honest and I'm pouring my heart out to her.
Please help. I don't want to lose her.