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Weiner_luver
Jan 22, 2007, 09:37 AM
Me and My boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. Im starting to think he doesn't love me any more. First he stopped hanging out with me and kind of stopped calling me. I need help I don't know what to do. I love him so much I don't want to loose him.. Thanks

tamed
Jan 22, 2007, 11:39 AM
You could try talking to him, telling him (calmly) that you have noticed these changes and you were wondering if there was something wrong.

bernc032
Jan 22, 2007, 11:17 PM
I agree with tamed... uhm, but also too being that you guys sort of just started dating and have already declared you love each other ( I'm assuming you both have said I love you to each other), he may be feeling a bit nervous as what to do next, or he may be needing some space because he feels he may have rushed into it... if both of you have said I love you, who said it first? Just things to consider when you talk to him, calmly... uh also too, going from your other post, if he's the same age as you and you told him you think you were pregnant, you may have freaked him out a bit. Some guys at 16-18 are not ready for a child as much as you are not ready to have a child. Anybody who did not plan for a child would get freaked out at any age. It just depends on what you do if you are pregnant.

boedacious
Jan 22, 2007, 11:46 PM
Me and My boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. Im starting to think he doesn't love me any more. First he stopped hanging out with me and kinda stopped calling me. I need help I dont know what to do. i love him so much i dont want to loose him.. Thanx
Well that happen to me i just went my own way before it got bad it hurts like hell but you have to make yourself do it i learn the hard way

JoeCanada76
Jan 23, 2007, 03:08 AM
After 2 months you do not really love him. You may have been getting to know him, but love takes time.

What I see is just that you guys were dating. There are many others out there. I think after you make whatever decisions you need to make for yourself. If you do not get everything straightened out and find out what is going on.

Guess what then I think it is time to move on and learn from this experience and work on yourself and focus on yourself and in the future sometime you will actually find somebody that will actually be a good match for you.

Joe

miss nafarious
Jan 23, 2007, 04:29 AM
[QUOTE=Weiner_luver]Me and My boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. Im starting to think he doesn't love me any more. First he stopped hanging out with me and kind of stopped calling me. I need help I don't know what to do. I love him so much I don't want to loose him.. Thanks[/QUOTE

:( sorry to hear this.
You know what, I don't know how old you are, but don't waste your time running after him. You'll probably find if you pay less notice of him & don't show him that his actions hurt you, he'll come running after you. If he doesn't, then he doesn't derserve you & you must find a guy that does!

dudya07
Jan 23, 2007, 11:55 AM
He just isn't I love with you, 2 months isn't long enough in most cases to find out...
Try to get distracted by smth or someone else and move on.