jaysbee
Mar 24, 2011, 06:13 PM
Hi I'm 18 me and my boyfriend have been together 11 months now . I moved my home country for him and we met on a holiday . A week before I moved over I was in hospital and he took a break from the relationship because some girl he worked with was flirting with him and he didn't know what to do .
First three months after I moved I couldn't get a job because I couldn't speak Spanish but even though I didn't have a job I searched everyday he never came home to a dirty house his dinner was always ready and I did all his washing recently we've taken a holiday to where I lived to see my parents we came back and a week later he had another turn and he wanted me to go back home and live with my parents he told my mum he would pay for the ticket and then 3 days later he was fine again..
Now Ive recently gave up my job but only because he was sending me home it wasn't a lot of money but it was better then nothing now Ive found out he was talking to my best friend behind a bar where none could see them and then next day there was a message from my friend on his phone a reply but there was no message to her he told me he deleted the message because I would get angry then I asked my friend and she said she'd just deleted her messages this all seems funny to me but I don't know whether there ling or not..
My boyfriend doesn't speak to me when he has a problem and I'm getting kind of tired of putting so much effort into the relationship and getting nothing back now he goes to work comes home plays on his phone or the computer or watches TV and doesn't even notice Ive cleaned or made his dinner or done his washing I'm getting so frustrated and I don't think its fair as well as this Ive got both my grandparents at home dying and I'm sitting here being told I'm lazy and selfish cause I don't have a job so much stress and I don't know what to do please help...
First three months after I moved I couldn't get a job because I couldn't speak Spanish but even though I didn't have a job I searched everyday he never came home to a dirty house his dinner was always ready and I did all his washing recently we've taken a holiday to where I lived to see my parents we came back and a week later he had another turn and he wanted me to go back home and live with my parents he told my mum he would pay for the ticket and then 3 days later he was fine again..
Now Ive recently gave up my job but only because he was sending me home it wasn't a lot of money but it was better then nothing now Ive found out he was talking to my best friend behind a bar where none could see them and then next day there was a message from my friend on his phone a reply but there was no message to her he told me he deleted the message because I would get angry then I asked my friend and she said she'd just deleted her messages this all seems funny to me but I don't know whether there ling or not..
My boyfriend doesn't speak to me when he has a problem and I'm getting kind of tired of putting so much effort into the relationship and getting nothing back now he goes to work comes home plays on his phone or the computer or watches TV and doesn't even notice Ive cleaned or made his dinner or done his washing I'm getting so frustrated and I don't think its fair as well as this Ive got both my grandparents at home dying and I'm sitting here being told I'm lazy and selfish cause I don't have a job so much stress and I don't know what to do please help...