View Full Version : He likes me but I don't like him back...
Oyaxx
Mar 24, 2011, 09:26 AM
Okiee so this guy in my school likes me but I don't really like back :/ maybe only as friends... I chat with him but I don't want to make him fall in love with me more & he is really so sweet with me, He tells me awesome & sweet stuff about me... But I want to continue chatting with him more not to make him like me more... I don't know how to tell him this, plus I don't want to hurt him... Can you please help me?? What should I do??
& thanks :)
southamerica
Mar 24, 2011, 09:41 AM
Just tell him the truth-straightforward, but in a sensitive way.
Here's how I would put it: "I want you to know that I value our friendship, and I would really like to continue being friends with you. I also feel that you should know I have no romantic interest in you, and if you thought that something romantic was going to happen between us, know that it will not happen. I don't want to lead you on because I respect you. Does that make sense?"
That way you have told him straight up how you feel and what you would like to see happen, and then you leave the door open for him to clarify, ask questions, etc. If he respects your boundaries and wishes, you will have saved a good friendship. Do expect that he might not want to be AS close to you, at least for a while, because he needs to sort out that you are *just* friends in his own mind.
Good luck :)
taylorhobbsx
Apr 2, 2011, 05:22 AM
Aww of course I can help u! U no I'm actually in da same situation as you right now :) like uu no you just dunt want to be mean! Id just say someething like this "i really really like u as a friend and your so sweet and kind. i just dont know u enough to want to go out with u , im so sorry ur so nice, i dunt want this to ruin our friendship"
If you say that it'll all be good :) trust me
Mwaa xx
Shaaaye69
Apr 3, 2011, 12:59 PM
I had the same situation,with a guy that really really liked me, and told me he loved me, but I didn't like him, finally I had to tell him, and he will get over it,m just be honest with him
krisdall
Feb 17, 2012, 12:20 AM
I am in the same situation (im 10 years old) one of my best guy friends likes me and I don't like him so said this:look our friendship means a lot to me and i.dont want.to.push it i.dont mean to.be mean at all. That's exactly what i.said.and it worked :-) good luck!!