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Soccergirl678
Mar 23, 2011, 04:59 PM
Ok so I have this friend and we have been best friends since day one. He was in my English class first semester and we sat right next to each other and never talked. It was my first year at public school, sophomore year and I was extremely shy. So the day that semester ended my and my friend went to the movies and we were sitting down before the movie talking and I saw him come in with this girl. My friend who was with me said that she knew him from somewhere, one of her friends is good friends with him. So after the movie my friend calls her friend to tell her that we saw this kid at the movies. Her friend told her to give
Him the phone and he is really cool and wouldn't think it's wired. So she walks up to him and say hey soandso wants to talk to you. Then once the conversation was over I asked him her you know who I am right.. You were my English class and he yes of corse you sat right next to me. That night he added him on Facebook and he came to be such a cool guy so I invited him over. We became good friends and started to hangout all the time. And he told me the story with the girl who he was with at the movie that one night. He has liked her for two years and she's been playing him and leading him on and he can't get over her. He would do anything for that girl but she just doesn't care. She leads him on like crazy. So it ended up that he told her off and said enough us enough and we started liking each other. But then this girl started coming back since me, the new girl, who he is moving to. Long story short, we ended up getting closer and closer, I got a boyfriend who broke up with me two months later, and he was there for me. And then he had his first girlfriend who left him for her ex. And we are still best friends. We wait for each-other after class, walk to our cars together, talk every night and sometimes I even go over his house on school days.. Just to watch TV. BUT. We are firlty, like I sit on his lap when there are no seats left at a party or something, I lay on him when I'm sad and he holds and comforts me, and of I haven't seen him in a while we will cuddle or something on the couch. We have held hands once when we first meet and he drove me home from the county fair, but we haven't since. There is a part of me that likes him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. And sometimes I feel like he likes me. He always begs to wear no makeup cause he says I look better without it, and he compliments me when I look good or something. And my family loves him, he's always over, even when I have family in town he is over and my family thinks that he likes me because they don't understand why a teenage guy would be willing to spend a full day with his "friend" and all bet family. Also him and my dad are close, like he came over to help us move into our new house and when they were done, he spent the rest of the night playing cod with my brother and dad. And we didn't really talk while he was here. So that's my story.. So you think he likes me in any way? And if he does.. How can we make it clear to each other?

Homegirl 50
Mar 23, 2011, 06:10 PM
He obviously likes you. Why don't you enjoy the friendship you have and let things progress naturally if they are meant to.

talaniman
Mar 23, 2011, 07:05 PM
I don't think you have to do anything but enjoy the friendship. Its sounds like a good one. Time will tell. You don't have to force what nature seems to be moving quite well without you.

ChelseyAmber
Apr 10, 2011, 04:45 PM
I've been through this.
He does like you, and you like him.
There are 2 ways you can do this AFTER you guys make it clear that you guys like each other.
And by tell him you like him you can simply ask him who do you like? And then go from there.
The 1st way is... stay bestfriends, because it can mess up your friend relationship and after you guys brake up things won't be the same and stuff you guys you to talk about like other relationships would be werid
And the 2nd way is... taking the chance of it all, and if it reals right to you then do it. Because if you guys are 100% sure it would mess up your friendship or anything then you know that you guys dating really won't change anything..
Make the right chocie because I went with the 1st way. And now are friendship is like a broke rollercoaster.

LimaBeanBob
Oct 28, 2011, 03:08 AM
Just go up to him and kiss him 1 day.. if he kisses you back he likes you if he doesn't say sorry it was a dare.. or make up your own excuse

Homegirl 50
Oct 28, 2011, 07:20 AM
You don't invade someone's space by going up to them and kissing them. That is inappropriate.
Enjoy what you have and if a relationship is meant to happen, it will