My ex girlfriend wants to be friends with me again..
Me and my best friend met 5 yrs ago I was in a different country and came back home after she insisted... Eventually her hubby started accusing me that you care for my wife so much that she does not see beyond you ,we were friends first then some one suggested business then I got into business which her husband offered.. after her hubby withdrew from business leaving me nowhere his wife claimed she did not know a thing about what he was doing after a yr of his breaking business relations he she swore this jan that she won't meet me or talk to me.. I respected her decision because I was worried that her married life may fall apart,her hubby and she are the best of married couple he loves her but she continuously talks about me even after the day is over because she thinks its good to share experiences and least did she realise he is jealous but she said last month she has to look after her family now... all of a sudden she has now started calling me I am still doing the same business although I respected her decision she has come back to me asking that its her problem she has messed up my life and that she can't control when it comes to me *** advise I am so confused she has emotionally traumatised me,she talks to me according to her convenience and when she meets me tells me she is scared to meet me with a fear that her hubby might beat her.. then she tells me she is going on a vacation with him... now she claims that she and I are friends who can't break up.. what do I do... I am also a female of 40 and my hubby works outside the country... what do I do she is giving me mental trauma again... telling me hope you don't feel I am purposely doing this with my hubby... and blah blah... Kindly help...

Kindly help because I feel emotionally traumatised, she is happy with her hubby but she wants both of us to be around her,although she knows its wrong her hubby warns her of a divorce but when I see them together I feel nothing is wrong between them and I believe it is all made up...

I got to tell you she sounds like someone to avoid. The drama would be a bit much for me. Some people are not meant to be around that much. She is one of them.

Avoid at all costs-let the drama queen find a new audience.

Thanks amicon also would like to tell you thtwhen I staRTED BUSINESS WITH her hubby my hubby was interested in buying a property this guy told my hubby run my business in it... my hubby being a simple guy he took his name andkinda franchise was running and is still being run by me... for a whopping $ amt they gave us stuff worth peanuts my hubby had to leave country for job ,my friends hubby became our familys close friend we all partied and then one fine day he started pulling stuff out of the store I asked my friend she said she had no idea what he was doing , I told her like silly don't ask as it is going to interefere in your married life ,with my kids home I went around looking for a supplier tired and stressed she was watching all this she could have guided me how to run the business as she was also a part of it ,amidst all this she told me I should not leave her because she doesn't know how to spend her day without me ,basically I was her 10-5 toy and her hubby 5-10 am toy

Also she used to ask me to close business during day time for lunches and shopping stuff and in all those meetings showed that she was scare of her hubby and meeting me still and told me she and her hubby had grt relations but when her hubby thot of me he was in a bad mood I told her look after your family and it is more important I will be fine , then once fine day after a yrs of drama she told me txting that she has sworn not to talk to me but she worried about me and she will remain in touch through txting ,I put my foor down telling her that either she has to completely get into what she has done or forget it,she parties goes arnd has friends am a loner with my kids and the business which I was forced to do ,her hubby last yr gave me a conntract where the first clause was to sell the store if I wanted to him only,she forced me to sign that ,then last week she asked me hope you don't feel that I am with my hubby for your store and what not,now she calls me started keeping in touch again

Thanks also would like to tell you that when I staRTED BUSINESS WITH her hubby my hubby was interested in buying a property this guy told my hubby run my business in it... my hubby being a simple guy he took his name andkinda franchise was running and is still being run by me... for a whopping $ amt they gave us stuff worth peanuts my hubby had to leave country for job ,my friends hubby became our familys close friend we all partied and then one fine day he started pulling stuff out of the store I asked my friend she said she had no idea what he was doing , I told her like silly don't ask as it is going to interefere in your married life ,with my kids home I went around looking for a supplier tired and stressed she was watching all this she could have guided me how to run the business as she was also a part of it ,amidst all this she told me I should not leave her because she doesn't know how to spend her day without me ,basically I was her 10-5 toy and her hubby 5-10 am toy

Also she used to ask me to close business during day time for lunches and shopping stuff and in all those meetings showed that she was scare of her hubby and meeting me still and told me she and her hubby had grt relations but when her hubby thot of me he was in a bad mood I told her look after your family and it is more important I will be fine , then once fine day after a yrs of drama she told me txting that she has sworn not to talk to me but she worried about me and she will remain in touch through txting ,I put my foor down telling her that either she has to completely get into what she has done or forget it,she parties goes arnd has friends am a loner with my kids and the business which I was forced to do ,her hubby last yr gave me a conntract where the first clause was to sell the store if I wanted to him only,she forced me to sign that ,then last week she asked me hope you don't feel that I am with my hubby for your store and what not,now she calls me started keeping in touch again