I'm a girl and I love a girl! She loves me too... we are together from past four years. Now she has a boyfriend too and I'm married but I still love her like hell and she knows that very well. She cares for me,loves me but I want to get over her.. I can't get her out of my mind! I mean in these four years I have done some really unbelievable stuff for her and she loves all that but I think that its not going to last for long and it'll be really difficult for me to get her out of my mind just of a sudden when she'll get married etc etc.. so I really need some serious advise!

Leave the side chick alone, and focus on your husband exclusively for a change, and in time you will get over it.

What made you think something good would come of cheating??

Well from what I'm hearing, this reminds me of what happened when I had to give up my love... my one and only boyfriend, but that's a different story, mostly because I had to choose between two men, well, what I had to do to get over him was find a hobbie, one that takes time and much consintration, like painting, drawing, sketching, gaming (iguess), cleaning, singing, dancing, choriography, etc. any thing that you like to do, that takes your mind off your female love... forget the things that you did in the past that reminds you of her... if it helps then go to www.cyquest.com (this site helped me when I went emo-suicidle over my life loves, I hope it will help you... )