lilmizsara
Mar 19, 2011, 04:48 PM
- does a person have to have lots of foreplay experience before to know what he's doing?
I was feeling insecure recently and asking my boyfriend if he ever compares the foreplay we do to the one with his ex. He said there's nothing to compare as ours is different, its based on love, and we both Know and Understand what we are doing.
He said he regretted his with his first ex cause they didn't love each other, it was in the heat of the moment and both didn't know what they were doing, and he felt very very sinful and guilty for not keeping to his values when they almost had sex. The girl initiated these things.
He only has that one experience with a girl, although he said their foreplay was based on whenever there's a feeling. I have two questions:
1) why would any man regret foreplay with a girl? Wrong girl, or just a plain bad experience? Since both didn't know what they were doing..
2) are there any signs a man is very experienced at foreplay? What would make him look like a pro? My boyfriend just knows the usual erogenous zones on a girl, but err that's all. A few times at the beginning he pinched me up there too hard, and once when he was stimulating me down below - just rubbing - he was really rough and there was a lot of pain, he only touches me there if I'm wearing underwear. Usually he just kisses me ard my jaw or just my mouth and just strokes my body.. does all these indicate lots of experience?
sorry if I was too detailed!
I was feeling insecure recently and asking my boyfriend if he ever compares the foreplay we do to the one with his ex. He said there's nothing to compare as ours is different, its based on love, and we both Know and Understand what we are doing.
He said he regretted his with his first ex cause they didn't love each other, it was in the heat of the moment and both didn't know what they were doing, and he felt very very sinful and guilty for not keeping to his values when they almost had sex. The girl initiated these things.
He only has that one experience with a girl, although he said their foreplay was based on whenever there's a feeling. I have two questions:
1) why would any man regret foreplay with a girl? Wrong girl, or just a plain bad experience? Since both didn't know what they were doing..
2) are there any signs a man is very experienced at foreplay? What would make him look like a pro? My boyfriend just knows the usual erogenous zones on a girl, but err that's all. A few times at the beginning he pinched me up there too hard, and once when he was stimulating me down below - just rubbing - he was really rough and there was a lot of pain, he only touches me there if I'm wearing underwear. Usually he just kisses me ard my jaw or just my mouth and just strokes my body.. does all these indicate lots of experience?
sorry if I was too detailed!