Purchase a copy of the Amazon.com: The Joy of Sex: Fully Revised & Completely Updated for the 21st Century (9781400046140): Alex Comfort: Books (http://www.amazon.com/Joy-Sex-Revised-Completely-Updated/dp/1400046149)

Your question isn't specific enough.

If you have to ask... you really shouldn't be doing it.

If someone had to ask this question, wouldn't this be a better choice of book?

The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex, Third Edition (http://www.amazon.com/Complete-Idiots-Guide-Amazing-Third/dp/1592573274/ref=pd_sim_b_5)

I always thought learning how to was half the fun, well, at least for me.

Or spend a few days at a farm... the basic mechanics of it are pretty simple. You will see the farm animals going at it at some point. Assuming the boy animals aren't kept sperated from the girl animals.

Its all the fine points that take a lot of time to learn. And its those fine points that separate good from bad.

The last time I was on a farm, the bull was eyeing me.

I walked away quickly, backwards.

The last time I was on a farm, the bull was eyeing me.

I walked away quickly, backwards.

You don't mess with a bull... if you don't get over that fence fast enough... he's going to get what he wants.

zaheerak, how old are both of you and how long have you been married?

Are you asking about the actual act of intercourse?
Is your wife not wanting to have sex with you?
Are there any physical/medical issues with having sex?
Are you asking about cultural or religious aspects of having sex?