ConfusedVernon
Mar 14, 2011, 05:56 PM
Hi there thanks for reading I'm new to asking things online or even just looking for a awnser .So thanks for taking time to answer me.
Well my girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years .We met in the same school and well I knew ever since I saw her that she was the one for me and I have gone through everything I can to stay with her ex , 2 visas to stay by her and just a lot of trouble . Sex was great when we started dating yet now that everything is perfect after trouble a long wile back and getting my 2nd visa she just does not want to have sex any more .I have asked her what is wrong so many times and have tried everything I can from lube to trying to change the way we do or were we do it. I try to do most the work in the house and keep her happy at everything so the conditions will get better but every time its just dead she wants nothing to do with me . Ive asked is it me or something I do , maybe the surrounding were in and even a hotel but nothing works she does not want to lose me and neither do I. but its gotten to a point were I am not happy were I just have to make all the conditions right to be disapointed . I will never forse her to do what she does not want to do and if she does not want to have sex then that's it
But I have tried everything and read up on most the things I can , there must be some 1 that has this problem as well or who has dealth with it . Must I just ignore it and she will start to be more active with me or what ? Please help : (
Well my girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years .We met in the same school and well I knew ever since I saw her that she was the one for me and I have gone through everything I can to stay with her ex , 2 visas to stay by her and just a lot of trouble . Sex was great when we started dating yet now that everything is perfect after trouble a long wile back and getting my 2nd visa she just does not want to have sex any more .I have asked her what is wrong so many times and have tried everything I can from lube to trying to change the way we do or were we do it. I try to do most the work in the house and keep her happy at everything so the conditions will get better but every time its just dead she wants nothing to do with me . Ive asked is it me or something I do , maybe the surrounding were in and even a hotel but nothing works she does not want to lose me and neither do I. but its gotten to a point were I am not happy were I just have to make all the conditions right to be disapointed . I will never forse her to do what she does not want to do and if she does not want to have sex then that's it
But I have tried everything and read up on most the things I can , there must be some 1 that has this problem as well or who has dealth with it . Must I just ignore it and she will start to be more active with me or what ? Please help : (