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blcole
Jan 20, 2007, 10:20 PM
My ex-boyfriend have 2 children. I left him and fell in love with his uncle,not too much older than him. This made the all angry. Although there was no child protective services or DHS called on me or my husband, but still somehow unbenones to me he got my babies from me. We were never married no childprotective, no dhs, no police reports. I quess my question is how can they do something like that.
bronzebabe
Jan 22, 2007, 07:12 PM
Whether there was DHS or social services in the middle of things or not, he has the children. If you want them back, get a lawyer and file in court for custody! If not, he is likely to keep the kids!
shygrneyzs
Jan 22, 2007, 07:53 PM
Unbeknownst to you, he got your children? Where you asleep? You were not married so he is not guilty of kidnapping. You do need some legal representation to work something out between your former boyfriend and the custody of your children.
What can he prove that would make a good argument for his petition to have full custody of the children? What can you prove to refute his side of things?
Fr_Chuck
Jan 22, 2007, 07:59 PM
If you and your boyfriend have children together. You don't have to be married, he has as the father the same custody rights as you do.
So when you separate, you go to court and file for custody, the court decides who gets the children, If he called DHS or some agency, they will do a report, if he has the children, it is because they gave him the children or he went to court??
And you have to know how he got the children, it can not be unbeknownst? He either walked in and just took them, or you were served with legal papers giving him the children.
You will need an attorney to work on this.
But be honest hope that someone like me is not the judge that day,
You left him for his uncle, that is just beyond acceptable behavior in any social circle.