I have been friends with this guy for about 1 year now and we have become really close. At the beginning of our realtaionship I was very much attracted to him, and I told him. But at the time he did not like me in that manner. After a while I was told by his best friend that he had strong feelings for me, but he did not act on them. After a few more weeks, he found himself attracted to my girlfriend, and they began to date, but the relationship has'nt gone so well and they broke up. He still wants her back, but she doesn't want him. I have fallen in love with him and I don't know if I should tell him even though he has strong feelings for my girlfriend. In my eyes we are like soulmates we get along so well and can spend hours each day just being with each other. I seems that he likes me but just can't tell me... I am so confused about all of this I just don't know what to do please if you have a clue what I am talking about and have some advice,

Hi there

From you question it sounds like you are really confused.

It sounds like you fell in love from the first sighting. You cannot expect the other person to just fall into the sameway you are thinking, this takes time and investment.

It sounds like you guys are good buddies and you will have to give it time to tell weather you will both fall in love with each other.

Slow down and let time tell

Regards
Peanuts

Im having almost the same problem except we aren't good friends and I can't stop thinking about him. If you figured your problem out please tell me! Thanks! (if not good luck!)