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Cindrella4me
Mar 11, 2011, 09:19 AM
Well I am 23 year old girl.My parents are searching proposals for me. While searching we come to one proposal where the boy is also 23 years old... only 6 month elder to me...
He is exactly the same as I want.. But things won't work. He is an engineer and want to get marry with engineer only... plus they felt both of our's age is same they feel at least there should be 1 or 2 years gap between gal and boy..

But my problem is that I reallllllllllllllly want to marry with that boy only.
I know its very stupid thing, but although he rejected still I don't want to see any other proposals... I fall in love with that boy... Dont know how to forget...

I know all of you might be thinking what's this... but for the first time it happened

talaniman
Mar 11, 2011, 03:00 PM
Have you met the guy, and talked to him? How do you know its really love so fast?

Cat1864
Mar 11, 2011, 04:13 PM
The age gap isn't the issue as much as the fact that he isn't interested in you.

Are you sure that you haven't fixated on him because he doesn't want to marry you? Sometimes we fixate on someone we can't have because it seems safer than looking for someone else.

If this male had not been brought to your attention, what would you think of the other prospects your parents have found for you?

shyladym
May 16, 2011, 07:57 AM
Ask him y he rejected you! Maybe he has a secret girlfriend and his proposal was arranged.