ken007nielsen
Mar 6, 2011, 05:20 PM
Hello.
I've recently began being active in regards to dating, and I'm courious as to why I'm unable to ejaculate during the first few times of sexual intercourse.
I don't really consider it a problem because it's not anything lasting, just in the beginning. But I am however curious.
It's been this way ever since I can remember, I just forgotten all about it since I've spent the last 4 years with my ex.
Now to provide abit of detail:
When starting I spend a great deal of time, getting the girl worked up so the penetration is as gentle as it possible can be.
I am constantly listening to my partner to find out what get's her off and what doesent feel as good. I like doing that, I get pleasure knowing that I'm doing good, but sometimes I might focus too much on it.
Everything sexual feel's the same, it differs a little but not a whole lot, and everything feels great.
Last night we spend 4 hours trying to complete it, and then again 1 hour when we woke up.
I told her that, with a new partner this is natural for me but I can't shake the feeling that she might feel lesser or something because of it.
So.
Is it a kind of mindblock the prevents me from completing the sexual act?
Something I can tell her besides that makes her believe that it isent her but me?
/(I'm 25 years of age)
I've recently began being active in regards to dating, and I'm courious as to why I'm unable to ejaculate during the first few times of sexual intercourse.
I don't really consider it a problem because it's not anything lasting, just in the beginning. But I am however curious.
It's been this way ever since I can remember, I just forgotten all about it since I've spent the last 4 years with my ex.
Now to provide abit of detail:
When starting I spend a great deal of time, getting the girl worked up so the penetration is as gentle as it possible can be.
I am constantly listening to my partner to find out what get's her off and what doesent feel as good. I like doing that, I get pleasure knowing that I'm doing good, but sometimes I might focus too much on it.
Everything sexual feel's the same, it differs a little but not a whole lot, and everything feels great.
Last night we spend 4 hours trying to complete it, and then again 1 hour when we woke up.
I told her that, with a new partner this is natural for me but I can't shake the feeling that she might feel lesser or something because of it.
So.
Is it a kind of mindblock the prevents me from completing the sexual act?
Something I can tell her besides that makes her believe that it isent her but me?
/(I'm 25 years of age)