iliavejur
Mar 3, 2011, 08:06 PM
I won full custody of my daughter before we had joint custody but he would leave her at random places on his days so we went to court. I showed him the photos and paper work from the doctor about the burns and the fact she was under wieght being with him he had taken off with her for three months I couldn't find them the police wouldn't help anyway so the judge even knew of his back round on how he tried to kill me and yet he allowed visitation now my ex doesn't have a job or a regular place to live. Several times she has come home dirty sick and tired he finds it funny he will joke about how he just drops her off at his moms well last month I had to get off work and rush my daughter to the hospital he left her with his mom and instead of his mom calling me to tell me she was throwing up she made her wait till Sunday the day she normally gets droped off well she was very sick and he wouldn't go to the hospital he told me it was not his problem that I was the mother and to take care of it. I want my daughter to see her dad but I am afraid he is not mature enough to have her without supervision.
and I can't not give her to him or I will violate the order I have tried talking to the judge but he keeps throwing out my motions and last weekend he went to jail and his mother had my daughter and no one called me because I thought that it was a violation if he went to jail and did not return my daughter and his parents it states in the order they are not to be alone with my child because of recent things so I guess what I am asking is what are my options I am afraid for my daughters well being and I just want her to be safe. There are times he gets her and drops her back off. I know he doesn't spend time with her he already told me he doesn't love her but he will see her so he will look good. He doesn't pay child support the court has done nothing about this and he is verbal and I just found out that this whole time he has had a warrant out for his arrest wouldn't the judge check background before giving visitation I had witnesses stating he was abusive and I don't understand why a judge would let him see her without supervision its dangerous I love my daughter and I just want her safe
and I can't not give her to him or I will violate the order I have tried talking to the judge but he keeps throwing out my motions and last weekend he went to jail and his mother had my daughter and no one called me because I thought that it was a violation if he went to jail and did not return my daughter and his parents it states in the order they are not to be alone with my child because of recent things so I guess what I am asking is what are my options I am afraid for my daughters well being and I just want her to be safe. There are times he gets her and drops her back off. I know he doesn't spend time with her he already told me he doesn't love her but he will see her so he will look good. He doesn't pay child support the court has done nothing about this and he is verbal and I just found out that this whole time he has had a warrant out for his arrest wouldn't the judge check background before giving visitation I had witnesses stating he was abusive and I don't understand why a judge would let him see her without supervision its dangerous I love my daughter and I just want her safe