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wishfuldreamer
Mar 1, 2011, 11:46 PM
So me and my friend were like 2 peas in a pod we never spent any time away from each other we knew erevything about each other. Now she has a boyfriend (for over a year) and he is her ONLY interest. She won't talk to anyone but him. I text her call her NOTHING. At school, she won't talk to me during lunch we sit together and he is there(unfortunatly) anyway all they do is cudle do I get a word out of her to me NO what does he get hugs kisses on the cheek I love yous, etc. What do I do?

joypulv
Mar 2, 2011, 03:39 AM
Sadly, this happens a lot and all you can do is find a new pea to be in a pod with. Her romance probably won't last and she will probably come crying, and you will then have to decide how to treat this fair weather friend. I wouldn't bash her though. This can happen to anybody. It's all just part of being young and immature.

redhed35
Mar 2, 2011, 08:12 AM
This happens even with adults,and its upsetting for your friendship to be put on the back burner,however your friend is going to learn a valuable life lesson, guys come and go, but its your friends who are always there.

For you, start making new friends,branch out!

And don't forget how this feels,so you don't do the same to someone else.

lalabreh
Mar 7, 2011, 08:43 PM
Dude! Mee tooo!! Well its over now but it was like that bfor. Us girls tend to get obsessed over guys and forget about friends and school. But it's a phase. TELL HER. If she doesn't know. That's what I did and it was all good.