I am 21 years old and my fiancé is 22 ,I am really in love with him we started to get sexually active and we started having foreplay and it was really fun
Then we decided to start the penetration but not completely
Even when he use a finger or get it in a little bit... it is painful
I want this to stop ,I really love him and don't want to screw things up for him
Is it because am still having my hymen ? Would it feel normal when it is gone?

Please go to your doctor and allow him (or your gynecologist) to check. Also, talk about birth control (unless you want to be a mother, since sex can very easily end up as a baby).

And please post each question once - asked and answered on your other thread.

Combine these two?

Well I asked it again to put in another category woman health which more relevant
Thanks a lot for your help.. well I don't have a gyn.
Do you think am sufferning something do I have to see one ?

First, you need to use full sentences and words and type like an adult.

Chat speak is NOT allowed on the adult sexuality boards.

And we don't know. You should see your doctor because any time you are dealing with pain in your vaginal area, it could be a bigger problem than it seems.

Well,what I'am asking about , did it happen for people when they try it for the first time
I have no experience concerning this field and I have no one in real life to ask about this
Ihavent suffered any kind of pain through my whole life concerning this particular place
Pain starts when he starts and stops when he stops... my problem is with penetration
If it is okey to have such pain the first couple of times ,I would appreciate it if you would tell me
If not... then you are right I should be seeing a doctor

Well,what I'am asking about , did it happen for people when they try it for the first time
I have no experience concerning this field and I have no one in real life to ask about this
Ihavent suffered any kind of pain through my whole life concerning this particular place
Pain starts when he starts and stops when he stops... my problem is with penetration
If it is okey to have such pain the first couple of times ,I would appreciate it if you would tell me
If not... then you are right I should be seeing a doctor

Yes sex the first and even first few times can be painful,
It is a matter of how much pain. Perhaps you need to be checked and discuss it with the doctor