View Full Version : How do you tell someone you like them?
Smply_wundrin_y
Feb 28, 2011, 06:21 PM
I Like the same guy and he's starting to show more signs that he likes me too.. I hope. And he seems like the shy type when it comes to telling girls he likes them. I don't want to wait anymore to find out if he likes me so I just want to tell him I like him. How do I do it with out it being embarrassing if he doesn't like me?
anonymous6
Feb 28, 2011, 11:39 PM
Dear Smply_wundrin_y,
I am in a similar situation but on the other side. I have feelings for a friend of mine and would love to tell her, but I am afraid of rejection and the possible ramifications that come along with being rejected by a close friend. This is the main reason I have never had a real relationship. It sounds like the boy you are talking about might be in the same boat. He may really care for you but just be too worried to show it. Try noticing his behavior around you and see if he smiles more, etc. If so, I would just ask him. If he is a shy boy, he will either be overjoyed by your asking him or at worst, would be slightly embaraased but flattered that you think about him that way. (Excuse the grammar trainwreck that was that last sentence :P) anyway, I wish you the best of luck!
babybluegirl
Mar 6, 2011, 12:57 PM
I have been in your situation before, I'm sure everyone has been at one point or another. My advice would to play it cool, and take anonymous6 advice and see if he smiles more when you are around, and see if his behaviour changes when your around. If you start to really think he likes you, either ask him who he likes and/or tell him you like him. One time my friend had just asked a guy that she liked and asked him " what would you say if i liked you? " (or something along those lines.)if you are shy you could probably do something like that, if that makes it easier for you.
Good Luck,
Smply_wundrin_y
Mar 8, 2011, 09:00 PM
Thanks you guys! I'm going to use both of your advice and let you guys know what happens. He does smile a lot when he's around me and when he see's me he's always the one to say hi or something like that. It was this one time he was like eww "my name" instead of saying hi, and then we talked all the way to the bus.. and I was going to tell him that I liked him, but I didn't quite no how to say it because it seemed like an awkward moment.
Smply_wundrin_y
Mar 14, 2011, 06:08 PM
I Told him and he said he only liked me as a friend