CarenX
Feb 27, 2011, 05:11 AM
Hi,
My boyfriend has a regular pattern of breaking up with me. Just yesterday the latest I told him before that if this happens again I won't take him back. It always goes the same way 3 weeks previous he will start to get emotionally withdrawn and hardly speaking with me. He will seam absent minded and preoccupied. Then he will find sooner or later due to my frustrations of him just being silent a reason to break up. When that is done he will start sending texts trying to make me think he is thinking about going with someone else,which he hopes makes me run to him and declare my love to him. Don't get me wrong I have noticed the pattern by now. But what I don't understand is why does he do that? Just no interest in the relationship? Am not sure on how to react this timme as we bought a flat together, so there is still a lot of stuff that needs sorting out.
My boyfriend has a regular pattern of breaking up with me. Just yesterday the latest I told him before that if this happens again I won't take him back. It always goes the same way 3 weeks previous he will start to get emotionally withdrawn and hardly speaking with me. He will seam absent minded and preoccupied. Then he will find sooner or later due to my frustrations of him just being silent a reason to break up. When that is done he will start sending texts trying to make me think he is thinking about going with someone else,which he hopes makes me run to him and declare my love to him. Don't get me wrong I have noticed the pattern by now. But what I don't understand is why does he do that? Just no interest in the relationship? Am not sure on how to react this timme as we bought a flat together, so there is still a lot of stuff that needs sorting out.