View Full Version : My best friend won't talk to me anymore.
dmaster
Feb 25, 2011, 09:13 PM
About2 days ago I was having a really bad day so I was a jerk to everyone. When I got to my class with my best friend. She sit behind me and talks to me all the time. I was having a really bad day, family problems and friend problems. So I basically ignored her the whole class because I was so annoying aabout the problems. So when class ends and I got home I messaged her saying that she forgot to give me my paper back she said" well you ignored me so i forgot, sorry".then after that I tried to ask her how her day was and she never replyed. Then the next 2 day she basically ignored me, which made me feel worse. Like whenever I go to lunch we would always see each other and say hi but when we meet she just ignored me and I just kept on walking and in the class we had together she didn't talk to me and moved a seat to the right to talk to her other friend. I don't know what to do.
adviceishere
Feb 26, 2011, 12:47 AM
Well she's not a mind reader! You ignored her for nothing, is she meant to just know why you chose to ignore her? I'm sure she felt hurt and sad by this and confused, so now she's mad at you. So you should probably explain to her exactly why you ignored her that day, and hopefully she will forgive you.
Shonnarose
Mar 1, 2011, 09:24 AM
HI. I just read your note and feel for you. We all have bad days. Did you yet apologise and explain to your friend. Also, true friends don't interrupt class or make judgements. You sound so upset. I would suggest you invite your friend to lunch with you and have a chat, if she refuses she is not your friend. If she agrees to meet you please allow her to get upset about the event and ask her to forgive and forget, that's what friends do.
talaniman
Mar 1, 2011, 07:01 PM
I think you made her mad and wanted you to know how you made her feel. Apologize, and do better next time you are having a bad day.