Please Help! I'm still not grasping the matter of what to do, and how I should do it.

If you want a kiss, ask if your partner would like one. If you want to nibble on your partners ear, ask her/him if that's something she/he would like.

In other words, talk to your partner.

If this is what your partner is into don't ask if you can do it... it ruins the moment... if that's what your going... from everyone I've kissed or been with they LOVE the feeling... but start of with a soft kiss.. kiss down from the mouth.. to chin.. around the neck area.. ( not to hard kisses though.. soft ones) work your way up the neck and towards the ear... no with the ear you don't want to particularly kiss it because the noise will leave a ringing in the ears.. take the tip of the ear lobe in your move and give a gentle tug with your teeth, at the same time breathing down their ear and neck... this mixture makes it feel so nice... ask them to do it to you.. and see how it feels then you'll get more confident in how to do it yourself. Hope this helps :)

If you are new at this, go with the flow and see what happens. Everyone tries to give advice on "How and What". . etc. But, when your in the moment, it always seems to work out. Either for better or worse ;) but there is nothing wrong with trying. You have to learn from all of these little experiences.

I agree with the above. If the situation/opportunity presents itself you'll be the first to know.

Best to not over think it nor worry too much about technique.

All you need is air, and opportunity, so take a deep breath. And go for it.

She will either let you do it, or slap your face, but you won't know until you try.

Thanks it did help a lot. And they did tell me its OK if I did it (I didn't ask they just flat out told me), but I'm still worried about like biting their ear lobe. It won't hurt or be weird to them?

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