So, I have only ever had sex with one guy in my entire life; my boyfriend. We have been sexually active for over a year, and during that time neither of us have had any other sexual partners. However, I'm pretty paranoid. I'm wondering if it is possible that I have herpes. I have been discharging mucus-y type stuff. Mostly clear, but sometimes with a tiny of yellow. It's sticky and slimy, and comes in bunches. I'm not discharging it all the time, a lot just comes out at once... maybe about a teaspoon amount.

I also have noticed that around my labia minora I have tiny, TINY little bumps. They don't even feel like bumps, just little TINY white spots. They don't hurt or itch, and it doesn't hurt to pee. So could they be herpes?

If I were to get herpes, wouldn't I have gotten it A LOT sooner, seeing as I have been having sex with this guy for over a year? Also, please don't just tell me to go to the doctor, as I am already going first thing tomorrow. I just need some reassurance tonight.

Well of course you are "assuming" boyfriend did not cheat on you,

You are "assuming" you caught it from him the first times

You are "assuming" what it could or may be.

So you make an appointment with your doctor and have it checked out.

In some STD ( and there are many) some go away but are not gone and can be causing serious damage with no signs after the first signs come and go.

Time to be checked out