Ok so... I met this boy through my friend, he seemed nice and he was. But just before christmas, he asked me to go on webcam because he forgot what a looked like, he went on too. He said a looked nicer than the last time he saw me. A was going to a party this night. He started to get more friendly and jokey. I joined in on the jokes, we were pretending to go out, we wanted to fool our friends. But when we finished all the jokes he asked me out for real and I said yes. BUT... I knew him a bit but not that much. So after a week of seeing each other I ended it and said I think we should get to know each other a bit more.We're still good mates. A few weeks later he had an other girlfriend and since then I have had more and more feelings for him and lastnight I had a dream about him. I'm scared to tell him how I feel about him. Anyone got advice on what I could do ?

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Your feeling r just a crush!

Don't worry it will fade

Its just the fact he has someone ells :) and u don't like it :p

It will fade :)

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But in my dream he broke up with her and we went out again, and it felt right and when I woke up I was hoping that it was true

No no I know I'm right, I do still love him becase what I'm feeling can't be a crush, it hurts me when ever I talk to him that he doesn't know how I feel. I need to tell him but I don't know how, on Facebook I look at his photos and I remember how it felt when he held me in his arms and then I see pics of his new girlfriend and think to myself, that should be me, I know you will say it's a crush but it isn't, iv'e had crushes and this one isn't, I've never felt like this before

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Exactly "in your dreams he broke up with her and it felt right"

Can you see? When your awake you can't stand the thoughs of him with her that's why at night your thinking is coming in your dreams to comfort you!

I went through same thing sweetheart I'm only 18 but don't mean I'm not mature! Lol

This will be over before you know it :)

But trust me whatever we think through our days come in our dreams at night!

Why not look for some ells? Or even avoid thinking of him!

Though if it makes you feel better tell him about this dream only if you trust him!

U don't want to be used by someone!

But I really think it just the way we feel

When we have something we don't want it
When it goes we crave for it

However this thing isn't right for us
That is why we let go of it in first place :)

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Ignore the part about his girlfriend because I meant to write I see pics of him and his girlfriend together

If telling him makes you feel good then go ahead tell him :)

But remember you can't break someone ells heart

God I can't imagine how that girl will feel!

Though you shouldn't have let him go in first place!

By the way the fact he didn't wait for you and just went for another showes he is really looking to get laid not love

Sorry

I'm 16 and I know what your saying but I don't want anyone else, and I don't want to forget about him. I miss the way he held me in his arms and whispered he loved me in my ears and they way he kissed me when we thought no one was looking. I miss him. But I know what your saying. My best friend went through the same thing for over a year but in the end they are back with eahother.

I know... I don't want to hurt anyone, that's why I'm going to wait to see if they break up but if they don't then I will just have to let go, and he isn't like that, he isn't the type of boy who just wants laid, he is not the type to love and leave, he is reall different

I can't help it I think that I need him, I know I don't but I was really happy, and your right I shouldn't have let him go, I'm regreting it as well, I thought we had to get to know each other a bit more but I've made the biggest mistake of ma life are that's what my head is saying

Please... please give more advice

How do I tell this boy I've been talken about how I feel about him Even though he has a new girlfriend ?

You don't, you leave him alone and respect his relationship like you would want someone to respect yours. And this isn't a blog, people come and go, so be patient and don't start new questions about the same thing.

Hey you made a mistake and it hurt, but the answer is not to fix one mistake with another one. That goes for this guy, and your posting habits. I mean as a guy, after a female rejects you, you have to move on and he did, but the thing you have to realize is he wanted a girlfriend, not because he cares about you, or her, but just to have one. So maybe you are better off without him because while you care a lot about him, he only cared for what he wanted, or else he would have respected your wish to know him better, and kept talking to you.

He did not, he jumped to the next available female. So leave him alone and don't look foolish chasing after him. Just because your feelings are strong, doesn't mean his were as strong. Obviously they were not!

But I want to tell him how a feel, I don't want him to break up with her because of me I just want to tell him how I feel and no one is going to stop me, not even YOU

I really don't care if you make a fool of yourself, that's up to YOU!