WingedOne
Feb 20, 2011, 03:53 AM
OK, so I met this guy. Thought he was awesome, feels like he's the one (we're only 16)but I still think its true, I've never felf like this before.
So I admitted to him that I liked him and it turnt out he liked me to, we've been together for a while now and he recently asked about the future, if we can get married. I want to be with him for the rest of my life and visa versa.
Just one problem, his cousin.
I must admit I met my boyfriends cousin first and its thanks to him that I'm with one of the most gorgeous guys I've met. Problem is the cousin admitted that he's jealous of my boyfriend, that he likes me and that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. He's 24. I think he's generally a nice guy but I don't want to be with him because I'm happy with who I've got. I've tried telling him this but he doesn't want to accept it, I hate upsetting people but he keeps getting depressed about it, he even cries. I've tried giving him advice to get him out of his depression but he doesn't want to hear any of it.
I've told him I'm happy to stay friends and that he's a really big part in my life and I don't want to lose him as a friend. However, he's recently been getting stressed at me and puts on a depression talk. He no longer listens to anything I say.
I don't really want to tell my boyfriend because I don't want it to cause an atmosphere between the family, I don't want to lose both of them.
They're in the usa and I'm in the uk. I was planning on going to see them this year and when I hit 18 I'm moving over there.
Sorry for the long deatails but I beg, please help!
So I admitted to him that I liked him and it turnt out he liked me to, we've been together for a while now and he recently asked about the future, if we can get married. I want to be with him for the rest of my life and visa versa.
Just one problem, his cousin.
I must admit I met my boyfriends cousin first and its thanks to him that I'm with one of the most gorgeous guys I've met. Problem is the cousin admitted that he's jealous of my boyfriend, that he likes me and that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. He's 24. I think he's generally a nice guy but I don't want to be with him because I'm happy with who I've got. I've tried telling him this but he doesn't want to accept it, I hate upsetting people but he keeps getting depressed about it, he even cries. I've tried giving him advice to get him out of his depression but he doesn't want to hear any of it.
I've told him I'm happy to stay friends and that he's a really big part in my life and I don't want to lose him as a friend. However, he's recently been getting stressed at me and puts on a depression talk. He no longer listens to anything I say.
I don't really want to tell my boyfriend because I don't want it to cause an atmosphere between the family, I don't want to lose both of them.
They're in the usa and I'm in the uk. I was planning on going to see them this year and when I hit 18 I'm moving over there.
Sorry for the long deatails but I beg, please help!