calibuddz024
Feb 17, 2011, 09:41 PM
Well, we've been dating for almost 4 years and its great. I love him and I know he loves me but there are a good amount of things that make me nervous about him covering something up. For starters for a good three months or so about a year ago he wouldn't want to have sex with me always saying he was so tired.
This has changed now we both want to have sex with each other and its pretty mutual in who declares they want to have sex. He does other things though which make me nervous like one time he was completely blacked out and his brother was trying to move him off the ground and he tried to kiss him! I don't know if he thought it was me or what but we all laughed it off and pretty much forgot about it the next morning.
Other times when he gets drunk he'll always grab our guy friends nipples and even grind a little bit on them which I personally think is so weird. I also was downloading movies on his computer and was in his library and found transsexual porn were the girls with ****s are ****ing the guys.
Total turn off for me, but I brushed it off.
He also recently has been asking me to finger him? Which I would do it for him but now its got me thinking of all these coincidences that just keep adding up about him maybe being gay or bi. I'm not against it but I would like to know the truth. I know he loves me and I know he loves me a lot as I feel the same but it still has me weirded out.
I believe people are entitled to feel and love how they wish and I would never be against gay and bi sexual people, but I'm not for it when the man I'm trying to start a life with may leave me for a man. Also, I would like to add that besides these things he doesn't act gay at all. He looks at regular porn and stuff, checks out women, doesn't care how he dresses, he's going to school to be a mechanic, but all the past things have still left me wondering. Can anyone else wrap there mind around this?
This has changed now we both want to have sex with each other and its pretty mutual in who declares they want to have sex. He does other things though which make me nervous like one time he was completely blacked out and his brother was trying to move him off the ground and he tried to kiss him! I don't know if he thought it was me or what but we all laughed it off and pretty much forgot about it the next morning.
Other times when he gets drunk he'll always grab our guy friends nipples and even grind a little bit on them which I personally think is so weird. I also was downloading movies on his computer and was in his library and found transsexual porn were the girls with ****s are ****ing the guys.
Total turn off for me, but I brushed it off.
He also recently has been asking me to finger him? Which I would do it for him but now its got me thinking of all these coincidences that just keep adding up about him maybe being gay or bi. I'm not against it but I would like to know the truth. I know he loves me and I know he loves me a lot as I feel the same but it still has me weirded out.
I believe people are entitled to feel and love how they wish and I would never be against gay and bi sexual people, but I'm not for it when the man I'm trying to start a life with may leave me for a man. Also, I would like to add that besides these things he doesn't act gay at all. He looks at regular porn and stuff, checks out women, doesn't care how he dresses, he's going to school to be a mechanic, but all the past things have still left me wondering. Can anyone else wrap there mind around this?