PirandelloLuigi
Feb 17, 2011, 12:33 PM
Hi friends, recently my girlfriend moved out of her moms place to get her own place and yesterday after only 10 days in her new place, she decided to break up with me. Her family did not like me and I think they kind of convinced her to leave me.
She kept saying to me that we don't understand each other and that I was not there for her when she needed me. Then she started to say that I am selfish, meanwhile all she spoke about was her business and her new apartment and totally forgetting our relationship.
Then she said that I should be seeing a girl that works 9 to 5 because she has a crazy schedule and works on week ends sometimes. She also kept saying that I tried to destroy her business and that I wanted her failure which is totally false. I always helped her with graphics and encouraged her when her business was in a slump.
This is our third break up and I feel like it's hopeless, I feel like she just looks for excuses to break up and she is really quick to bail out on me. This coming from a girl that once wanted to marry me and buy a home together. I also busted her lying to me like 3 weeks ago, I asked her who she was talking to and she said her sister in law, instead I saw the name on the phone and it was a guy. So I asked her again and she became red and said it's my client and we are friends now. I am suspecting she cheated on me with this guy or she was planning to dump me to go with him. She never spoke to clients on week ends as friends. She also kept saying that I did'nt have a business mentality so I could not understand her, so I think this client of hers had the business thinking she was looking for.
Anyhow I don't care anymore, I didn't yell at her for lying to me, but I told her I was dissapointed. It's kind of sad to see how relationships end so easily these days, I had a lot plans for the future with this girl and now it's just down the drain.
When I saw her the last time and she broke up, I told her to don't call me anymore
And leave me alone and that she used me, living at my place until she got her own place.
She had the keys of my place and she didn't pay any expenses while living there.
She kept saying to me that we don't understand each other and that I was not there for her when she needed me. Then she started to say that I am selfish, meanwhile all she spoke about was her business and her new apartment and totally forgetting our relationship.
Then she said that I should be seeing a girl that works 9 to 5 because she has a crazy schedule and works on week ends sometimes. She also kept saying that I tried to destroy her business and that I wanted her failure which is totally false. I always helped her with graphics and encouraged her when her business was in a slump.
This is our third break up and I feel like it's hopeless, I feel like she just looks for excuses to break up and she is really quick to bail out on me. This coming from a girl that once wanted to marry me and buy a home together. I also busted her lying to me like 3 weeks ago, I asked her who she was talking to and she said her sister in law, instead I saw the name on the phone and it was a guy. So I asked her again and she became red and said it's my client and we are friends now. I am suspecting she cheated on me with this guy or she was planning to dump me to go with him. She never spoke to clients on week ends as friends. She also kept saying that I did'nt have a business mentality so I could not understand her, so I think this client of hers had the business thinking she was looking for.
Anyhow I don't care anymore, I didn't yell at her for lying to me, but I told her I was dissapointed. It's kind of sad to see how relationships end so easily these days, I had a lot plans for the future with this girl and now it's just down the drain.
When I saw her the last time and she broke up, I told her to don't call me anymore
And leave me alone and that she used me, living at my place until she got her own place.
She had the keys of my place and she didn't pay any expenses while living there.