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snow12345
Feb 15, 2011, 01:43 PM
I met this man twice, and he hasn't bother see me in just over 6 weeks, despite fact he keeps testing and phoning me everyday, and all sudden after meeting him.his asking me out then saying am his girlfriend. Feels like one big rush.his delivery driver so up down country etc, but he only lives 30minutes aways from me by car. I told him I can't be bothed with you if are not going make time to see me once and he apologising ever since. So thought forget him. The other day he text saying am sorry I do want be with you in serious relationship can meet up later. I text him saying what you looking for where do we Stand, he said he wants be with me and in serious relationship.
So met him up again he apologising saying am sorry I make it up to you. Where do you want go on weekend Cinema, bowling etc. everything I said when met him that night he deeply interested in like he gave ****. Which was nice. I said am not looking for sex and he said but we can kiss and cuddle so we doing that. And he kept saying your sexy and beautiful etc. and do need some money cause want take care of you how much do you need. I said I didn't want his money. He also saying he wish met more sooner etc. His slos saying he wants us to be together forever I have thing for wearing mini skirts and before meet him always like going wear mini skirt. Is he just putting on charm or does he do really like me. I come across men in past just want sex past and didn't make effort show interest in life and call you for least hour every few days. I hardle bother with him his one usually texting and if don't reply then he phone sometimes saying how come didn't reply to text. Etc
I like him but just keep thinking is all to good to be true. Sometimes he be really sweet and other times he comes across aggressive, the second time met him out no where he went mad and started shouting at me and then saying all my fault, then at home he was texting me really nasty texting, then next day he was saying am sorry really sorry on phone and through texts

answerme_tender
Feb 15, 2011, 02:22 PM
Well I think the biggest problem in this situation is that he is probably already MARRIED!! It doesn't appear that you are the first and more then likely won't be the last of his efforts to cheat on his wife!! Why do you think he is trying to rush you into a sexual relationship!!

Even if he isn't married, he sounds like a individual trying to get as many notches in his bedpost as possible. Either way he isn't going to be much of a catch!!

Stick to your guns and ignore him, there are better men out there!!

Take care

talaniman
Feb 15, 2011, 06:05 PM
When in doubt slow down, and find out the facts.

SaraHere
Feb 17, 2011, 08:33 AM
All I can say it w.o.w... my opinion if I knew this person lashes out at sudden things and gets aggressive my natural instincts is get the **** out of the relationship but you never know he looks like he does like you but I think this is moving to dam fast you only met twice he can't be talking to you like that he needs to know where he stands.. and by wearing a mini skirt on a date? Don't you think that's just ugh.. too much.. lol bare in mind if you think this guy is overly dramatic over things I suggest you just take things step by step instead of going head first meet him in a public place I suggest that because of the aggressiveness you need to know what your doing just because he sounds sweet and wants to take care of you doesn't mean its true good luck stay save