So, a couple months ago I started dating this girl, lets call her Susie. Susie and I were real close, but Susie and I drifted apart, and we both know we don't fit for each other, for the time people could change again.

Three days later, another girl, we shall call her Taylor, asked me out, as she knows that I think that a real girl with real feeling would ask out a guy and not care, so I said yes for her move, and we have done a little flirting before that.

So, its been almost a week and I don't feel right for Taylor. I don't have the will power to break up with her but I also have feelings for Susie. I know the was she thinks, and she will think that I broke up with Susie for Taylor. So, I have no will power to break up with her, and I don't have the will power to call my ****ing ex that she is not right for me BECAUSE she actually CHEATED ON ME AND I WANNA CALL HER A ****ING WHORE!!!! and Taylor wants me back.

Ok. I just needed to say that.

I think u need to take a time out from dating and figure out what u feel! You were hurt by the cheating and u need to heal before u move on- remember u don't want to bring baggage of your past relationship into a new relationship!

I don't feel right for Taylor


This is not hard guy, you leave Susie alone, and be honest with Taylor, because you just ain't that interested, and look around for some one you are REALLY interested in.

"we both know we don't fit for each other"

That says it all. Later Susie.

And, Tal's right. Be honest. What? Are you going to tell Taylor that you really wanted Susie, but when she showed up... etc.

Just be free. Date anyone you want. Take a chill pill. Be cool. Don't try so hard or fall who shows you the next interest.

Just have fun.

You'll figure out who's right. As long as you are.