I live in Virginia. I have a child support order in California because that's where my kids lived when myself and their mother were separated for 7 years. California is where the order exists. It was never transferred to Virginia. My children have now been with me for the last 4 years, but the mother, also in Virginia, won't close the child support order.

1. Is there anything I can do without her cooperation to have the child support order dismissed in California without physically being in California? Can I file a motion to dismiss it based on the fact that I've been the custodial parent for the last 4 years?

2. I have their school records as proof that they've been here in Virginia with me for the last 4 years. What else do I need?

3. Is there a form or forms online that I can print and file through the mail or do I have to physically go to California to get this done?

Any help you can offer would be greatly appreciated.