Hi All,
Me and my boyfriend are in a relationship for last 2.5 years. We were thinking that we would be able to convince our parents... and so did we planned that when he goes to india he will convince in a smoothly manner. But things tuned out to be very worst. They accused him as a characterless person. Also the problem is I am elder to him by 1 year, and I belong to a marathi brahmin family and he is a reddy guy. His parents say that if he marries me then how will his brother get married? Also everyone will laugh at them. All emotional drama is created by his parents. They have removed him from their house saying we don't want to see your face. He is mentally disturbed like anything. He loves me so much that he don't want to leave me but now after seeing all this he's feeling bad for his parents. Please tell us what should be done.

I know you two love each other but if your parents feel you should not be together maybe you shouldn't be. I know is seems horrible to think about breaking up and that your and his parents may be right. If you did get married and have children think about your children, they wouldn't have real grandparents if your and his parents don not agree upon the marriage. It seems hard now and it will be for a while but eventually in the future you will realize that it was for the best. Parnets are a lot smarter than their kids usually think. Just focus on your future not the present. All may become clear then. Best wishes!

Maybe Time could.

I think you should seek the counsel of an older, wiser, man of faith that both families respect, and see if he has counsel for you. With both families against this, then you must decide as a couple which path to follow.

Parents can be very stubborn, and dramatic when children do not follow the path that they wish them to.

Good luck.

I don't understand how parents could do this to their own children. Its better not to give birth if they want to rule their kids' life

Look do 1 thing marry suddenly and jump in your parents leg or get 1 kid ASAP. Kids are always weak point for parents. I will pray you people succeed
Regards

I think you should get married (if your parents don't kill you), then just keep quite for an year. Let things calm down. Once they are calm tell your parents. Would be better if you just tell you have a kid. Because parents love kids...