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irffan
Feb 9, 2011, 06:20 AM
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,

My name is irffan ,I love my wife before marriage 4 to 5 years .after I married her .she was Christian.I married her after she convert Muslim.I'm all so doing some bad thing about myself.I'm drinking ,and smoking .after marriage I come to UK and I stay with her .she is from Sri Lanka I'm all so.I try to do teaching her to Islam lot of time from Internet and books every thing .after bet win us lot of problem we fighting shouting be for marring she and me mad lot mistakes.but I'm now pray for Allah.5 times pray day and ask dua.. be all so I'm pray some times some times not but I'm not drinking or smoking now .some times I'm smoking I got two kids still she said she in same old religion as a Christian and she say some time we got fight she want divorce and *** give solutions for this .

talaniman
Feb 9, 2011, 07:40 PM
If I read you right, she has gotten tired of your bad example of Islam and decided not to convert, so I highly suggest you do better with your religion before you hope to teach others and give her what she wants.

You may not like what you hear, but this isn't working for her so she is going back to what does and your solution is to go along with HER program because yours didn't work.

irffan
Feb 12, 2011, 04:33 AM
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,
I got your answer but I can't anderstand what I'm going to do for this.. and *** explain the answer.and what I'm going to do for my two kids...
Thank you...

talaniman
Feb 13, 2011, 03:08 PM
You get on the right path for your family, in actions, words, and behavior, and if the right example cannot change things then you have to accept her decision, and support her, and your children as a man should, regardless.