Okay so I have known this guy for like a year now. We were friends, but then we become friends with benefits. Just kissing that's about it. He would let me sit on his lap and only one time he would nibble on my ear. I never said I didn't like it but he never did again after I got off his lap after I did that. It tickled was all. Then he became more distant and back and forth with others. Then we got into a huge fight because, he was telling me and my friend Rebecca that he had feelings for us but, 1. He never told me directly but has told my friend. She was the one that told me that he has feelings for the both of us just how the way we acted. He stares at me constantly and would sometimes kiss this other girl in the morning when I'm around. Last week we were made into groups and we could only had three people. Then he went to this other group that he was in with before but they had enough people. There was one more spot in another one but he didn't go so he ended up in my group and each time he would act jealous when this other guy kept trying to be flirty with me. He used to talk to me but now he won't look at me why is that?? Is he confused?

He's a teenage boy who does not know yet how to tell a girl he likes her.

He most likely is confused about how he feels,most teens are.

For you, I would suggest you go about your own life,don't play games,just be yourself,he doesn't own you, he has no dips on you, you are not his girlfriend.

Once your not giving him attention or getting upset that he is kissing another girl he may finally get his act together and say to your face he likes you.

As I said for now,let it go, have fun,do your own thing,don't play head games,just be yourself.

Just as an side,'friends with benefits' means having casual sex with someone on a ongoing basis without the commitment of a relationship.. im sure you probably knew that, but from your post others may get the wrong impression, if your saying that to other people they may get the wrong idea.

Yeah well the only thing sexual he's ever done was makeout that's about it. This does kind of help the confusion thanks. I just hope he doesn't get too jealous where he gets into a fight. That's what worries me. Just hope everything falls in to place

I know that if that happens its scary, however, he makes his own judgements and decisions, he makes his choices, just like you or me, and he is responsible for those choices not you.

Yeah I know. Thanks this advice helps. I guess boys will be boys when it comes to this stuff. Hehehehehe.