OK my boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile and he hasn't held my hand has hugged me once and hasn't kissed me. The only time he touches me is when his friend pushes him up next to me. Im older than him and taller. How can I get him to be more affectionate with me? I really like him and don't want to break up with him. PLEASE HELP!!

Could he be shy and inexperienced? You are probably his first so how old are you and how long is dating awhile? You could just talk to him, just you two you know.

I'm 14 and he's 13 we've been dating for like a month orsp

You are probably first girlfriend that he has had that even what's to be kissed! He is probably used to the girls that are SATISFIED with hold hands and sitting by each other at lunch. If you really like him, then be satisfied with actually getting to know him, the rest will come when it's the RIGHT time.

Take care

The thing is he sits with me at lunch in all but doesn't hold my hand or hug me anything. I'm fine with it but I just wanted to know

Just let him know that you like to hug and give hugs when you first see him and when leaving him.

Ohkk thanks but I haven't seen him in a couple weeks bcos of the snow

Tell him how you feel a good relationship is all about trust. So since then has hever hugged or even kissed you on the cheek cause my boyfriends hasn't kissed meh yet but he hugged meh because I told him how I felt and I'm 13 he is 12 about to be 13 hope my advice works if not I'm sorry