Does he want to get married?

Later on yes but he does not want to rush anything wants to take it slow.

What do you talk about?

Anything I want, how my day was, my problems, his problems, what I want in life what he want in life, normal stuff

Legally, you can date, but I would run it past both sets of parents first. It would not be a pretty sight if either set of parents caught you dating him without permission.

And, of course, sex would never enter into the equation, right?

Yes right only way id ever do that is if I was married.

Why would a 21 year old man want to date a 15 year old child? He sounds like a loser to me. Find someone your own age to "date" and focus most of your energy on school and having a real future for yourself.

You got it wrong it's the other way around

Other way around? Explain please.

Okay I see. You are a 21 year old woman who wants to date a 15 year old boy? This is very bizarre to me. What could you possibly have in common with him? I think its wrong, sorry.

Lmao o you if I was 21 id not need my parents permission no I want to date him I ask he did not

What? Then how did I get it wrong in my first post. You make no sense.

You said "Why would a 21 year old man want to date a 15 year old child?" I am the one who wants to date him

Ok, I will revert back to my original answer to this post then. You are very immature, you should not try to pursue him.

Your text speak is hard to decipher. IF you were 21? Are you 21, or aren't you?

You asked him to date and he said no? Phew. Wise 15 year old.

Yes but in return he would have to want to date you, to which I questioned why would he want to? Do you understand?

Translation (I think) for "lmao o ya if i was 21 id not need my parents permission no i wanna date him i ask he did not ":

Laughing my a$$ off. Oh, yeah. If I was 21, I'd not need my parents' permission. No, I want to date him. I asked. He did not.

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I like how you say that not even knowing me

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No read the question bing 15 can I date a 21 with parents consent and no ones said no

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Yes I get it but what is age but just a number 18 to smoke 21 to drink br that was 18 too you hell all your to the government is 9 numbers you really want an age difference a dad bing 71 and the mom bing 47 or his frist marridge he was 27 and the girl was 16

Why are you so snotty and defensive over the answers you get? You don't come here to get the answers you want to hear, you come here for honest opinions. You told me I had it the other way around, and you don't explain yourself in your posts or give any details. Your sentences are hard to understand. I am done here. If you want my opinion on the issue, go back to my original answer.

First, may I call your attention to the guidelines for using the comments feature found here:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/feedback/using-comments-feature-24951.html

You are using this site inappropriately.

Second, a 21 your old man is going to run from a 15 yr old girl if he is smart. He is an adult, you are still a child. This business about age being just a number is just your way of rationalizing. While it is true that the older one gets the less age matters, but when one is an adult and the other is a child it certainly does matter.

Third, this site does not allow chat speak. We type in full words and sentences here.

Finally, I have a lot of doubt that you are telling the truth here. I doubt if your parents have given you permission, I doubt if this guy agreed to go out with you. I think you are a 15 yr old fantasizing about a crush with an older man.

I think you got it backwards, Scott.


you said "Why would a 21 year old man want to date a 15 year old child?" iam the one who wants to date him

No I don't think so. I think the OP is a 15 yr old teen with a crush on a 21 yr old guy and who wants to go out with him.

I'm guessing it's made up anyway, just to give us ulcers.

On second read, I decided you're correct.

I am a moderator, if you use chat speech one more time I will delete your post and perhaps your entire thread.

Next you are a silly kid who wants to think they are smarter than anyone else. So no it is not OK to date a grown man

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