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alicia1407
Feb 3, 2011, 11:50 AM
How many shoes should a 13 year old girl have because I only have like 5 pairs ?:(

Clemintine
Feb 3, 2011, 12:04 PM
There is no set amount that you "should" have... you have as many as you would like to have!
Keep pairs of shoes that you actually like and wear, don't worry about having the right amount.

justcurious55
Feb 3, 2011, 12:14 PM
Alicia, I think you have some deeper issues going on here. Every week you ask about how many this and how many that you should have. There's no magic number. There's no set rules. You come across as being unhappy with what you have and wanting more. Have you stopped to consider the people in this world that don't even have shoes? Or the girl 13 year old girls around the world who don't even have the time to care if they have makeup or perfume because they are too busy caring for their younger siblings and how to get clean drinking water and something to eat for the day?


Based on the posts I've seen from you, I really think you are being far too materialistic. Take a moment to be grateful for the things around you. Go ahead. Go make a list even. Write everything down, the 5 pairs of shoes, the boxes of makeup, the perfumes, every pair of jeans, every sweatshirt. Then ask your mom or dad to take you to volunteer in a soup kitchen or someplace. I think you'd end up with a whole new perspective on how much of anything a 13 year old "should" have.

DoulaLC
Feb 3, 2011, 12:47 PM
ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to justcurious55 again.


Excellent suggestions... focus on being content with all the wonderful things that you do have, instead of wondering if you have enough or worried about what you don't have.

If you have what you "need", you have enough.

alicia1407
Feb 4, 2011, 08:51 AM
Ino sorry its just me being selfish

alicia1407
Feb 4, 2011, 08:53 AM
I do thanks am sorry sometimes am just selfish!

Fr_Chuck
Feb 4, 2011, 10:25 AM
I know some very low income families that may only have one or at most two and most likely at least one was used from somewhere like the Goodwill.

I also know other rich people that they may have 40.

A lot depends on the family ability to buy and pay for things, the budge and how important other activities are