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eskimo1942
Jan 16, 2007, 01:02 AM
I have got a fetish for female feet and my girlfriend doesn't know it and I always just look at her feet and just want to tell her but I think she will think I'm a freak and leave me cause of this.. Could I please have some advice!

excon
Jan 16, 2007, 07:50 AM
Could i please have some advice!Hello eskimo:

Yeah. She's probably turned on by your fetish, but she's afraid of getting frostbite. Move to a warmer climate. I hear they have lots of bare feet on the beach.

excon

Thomas1970
Jan 16, 2007, 07:55 AM
Hi Eskimo,
This is actually one of the more common fetishes one could encounter, certainly not "fringe" material by any means. Offer to give her a foot massage after a long day at work. If you get good enough at it, I'm sure she'll hardly mind at all. :)

kanicky73
Jan 16, 2007, 09:33 AM
This seems kind of funny to me, if you like her feet just tell her. Us women love it when our man tells us they really love something about us. Now unless when you say foot fetish you mean something really freaky! But if you just really like her feet and like to look at them do exactly what Thomas said above and give her a foot massage. We love those!

eskimo1942
Jan 16, 2007, 03:01 PM
I have asked her for a foot massage a lot of times but most of the time she does not want one and she feels weird if I just play with her feet.

shygrneyzs
Jan 16, 2007, 03:19 PM
If she feels "weird" when you play with her feet, and she does not even want a foot massage, you should try another approach. Like maybe not touching her feet. Some women just do not like it, it feels "icky" to them. But you should talk with her because you two need to be on the same page when this particular fetish is something you enjoy.
There could be a logical reason why she does not like it. Maybe something you can even help her overcome. You never know until you ask. Hopefully in a not too pushy way.

Also work on things you both like and explore those. If you focus on her feet, you might find her foot in your backside and out the door.

I would echo the caveat expressed above from kanicky... "Now unless when you say foot fetish you mean something really freaky!" You never did state how exact your fetish is.

eskimo1942
Jan 16, 2007, 03:44 PM
Yes I understand I give her the sex and satisfy her but just now and then I want to kiss her feet. My foot fetish I like just to kiss and lick and suck feet and also give foot massages and keep there feet in my face.

shygrneyzs
Jan 16, 2007, 03:52 PM
Well, that is not the worst I have ever heard. I can understand that, honestly. I used to date a guy who had a very similar fetish and while I enjoyed the foot massage, I could not get past the licking and sucking. We parted as friends. I just could not adapt to what he felt he needed to express.

I do wish the best for you and your girlfriend.

eskimo1942
Jan 16, 2007, 03:57 PM
Thank you, I do enjoy giving foot massages but I just like the odd kiss and lick.

eskimo1942
Jan 16, 2007, 08:01 PM
Umm I've never had a frozen foot before

freebird1981
Jan 23, 2007, 05:00 AM
Me and partner have this ting where every few weeks we will have this night to ourselves,we will light the fire, get a few drinks,put some music on,and just completely relax and talk for hours.talk about fantasys,what we want do more or less of etc, basically it's a good way for us to find out what the other likes.. theres a few rules... be honest,no judging each other, personally I think it's a good way to relax,find out what your partner wants etc. up to now he is amazed how open minded I am, my point is, you are ASSUMING yor girl won't like your fetish... talk to each other be honest and have fun!

MichyMichelle
Mar 1, 2007, 03:00 PM
If she's your girlfriend, she should be the least judgemental of you. You shouldn't feel scared of being yourself. Isn't that what relationships are? Caring for one another as you already are?

x-mo-x
Mar 1, 2007, 03:45 PM
I love my boyfriend (if I had 1) 2 have a foot fetish!
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