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hardstyle0
Jan 29, 2011, 07:12 AM
I' m 17 years old and this girl is also 17.
I have not seen this girl 7 years. Now I got her msn and I talked to her 2days ago. She was excited to talk to me and even told me that I should tell when I will go to a party. Yesterday I didn' t talk with her because I was not able to go to MSN.
I wan' t to go out with this girl(she is very hot :D), but I don' t want to go to a party, First I would like to go to a coffe or city to hang out with her and I want to talk to her and hear her voice over a long time. What should I do to get her out and not look like wussy or "just friend".

And I know my english isn' t good :)

NukeNC
Jan 29, 2011, 08:45 AM
I think you should give it some time. I mean, a lot can happen over the course of 7 years, and if you want to be with her for anything besides a hook up I would wait awhile. Why is the party your cut off date anyway? Why does it matter? Get to know her. Keep talking to her on MSN, and the party is a good way to talk to her without it being weird with all the people around.

mygod9
Jan 29, 2011, 09:33 AM
You should join her group of friends or ask her to join yours. That way you get to spend time with her and know her better without creeping her out. Eventually, when you two are comfortable, you can ask her out

hardstyle0
Jan 29, 2011, 09:56 AM
The party is not so good because in every party in this city are many girls that I know very well and it' s hard to talk to her when all other girls are disturbing us. Isn' t this weird that I talk to her now every day on MSN?

NukeNC
Jan 29, 2011, 10:04 AM
Its never good to start saying "Hey! I want to be more than friends!" You should work on becoming friends first, if she starts to seem interested ask her to hang out just the two of you.

And talking on MSN every day isn't bad as lost as she isn't opposed to it. If you guys keep a good conversation going, and you don't feel like YOU have to push the conversation along to keep it going I don't see a problem.

ken007nielsen
Jan 29, 2011, 10:06 AM
Don't need to over analyze this, simple ask her on msn, would you like to see a movie? My treat :) and let it build from there!