I miss her so much, there are so many things wrong with the friendship we had. I don't know how to fix it. I met her through my ex-fiance. She is his sister-in-law. She and I became close during the relationship but also closer after he and I split up (April 2009). Her mother-in-law hated it, So did my ex. Her husband (his brother) never treated me any differently. There was complications between the mother-in-law and I, also with my ex and me so we had to be very careful on time schedules so nobody ran into the other. She was like a sister to me. Her husband became close to me also. Their son loved me. I had a lot of respect for both of them, as they looked past all the hate and drama between their mother, brother and I. We spent a lot of time together. Nearly a year later, the brother and I tried being friends again. That last about 3 months. Sent me into a whirlwind of emotions. I wanted nothing to do with him once again. I was the heartbroken one the first time. The second time he had obviously not changed, if anything he had gotten worse. So the tables turned and I became the one that didn't want anything to do with him. I was a crazy ex to him. I admit it. Anyway, he is not my problem. She and I had problems because of this. I was never her friend just to be close to him. It hurts me that she'd think that. Another "friend" stepped into the picture and pretty much came between my best friend and I. We will call the new girl "Patty" and the ex best-friend "Gabby". Patty and Gabby were neighbors, that is how they met. Patty is 35, Gabby is 25, I am 21. I had pretty much got my heart broken all over again with my ex-fiance trying to come into my life again, it didn't work. I began struggling. Learning some life lessons and Patty had became close to me. She was older and seemed more comforting in a motherly way. Gabby was always a jealous friend, demanded more time out of me than usual. I am a college student, a young one at that and I would grow frustrated with Gabby's neediness 24/7! Gabby is married to my ex's brother, raising a son as a stay at home mom. Hardly any friends. Love her to death, but the woman is clingy! Anyway, haha, Patty loved helping me out and giving me advice for she has problems with her own daughter who is also my age. They never got along at all. Gabby grew jealous of Patty and I newfound friendship. She introduced us and she wanted to help me feel happy again. As Gabby became jealous, and more dramatic about everything. I became frustrated. I had so much going on at the time. I was trying to get back on track, get myself together you know? I didn't have time to worry about petty drama. Well I eventually moved in with Patty. Only for a couple of months until I got back on my feet. Times were tough, Money was tight, I needed support Patty was more than happy to help. Gabby and her husband are a young couple, plus my ex's family. I just knew I couldn't stay there. Besides they were neighbors? What difference did it make? I was still close by? Wrong. I didn't think clear enough I guess. All hell broke loose. Gabby went bye-bye. I was busy over the summer, worked my *** off and also went through my own healing process. Patty and I ended up in an argument because her nephew had been hitting on me. I found out she was into pills, and getting high and drinking constantly. I'd been too focused on other things that I didn't realize how bad Patty's "hidden" behaviors were getting. I had to move out. Which I did, Then Patty and Gabby became friends once again. I anxiously waited for Fall semester to begin so I could go back to school and get away from them, which my school is a couple of hours away. I had no ties to either of them. I blocked them from Facebook and they wouldn't dare contact my cell phone. Shortly after I left, someone "tagged" Gabby's car with shoe polish while she was at Patty's. They wrote nasty things about me on Facebook. Even blamed me for it. Still to this day I have no idea who it was or if Gabby ever figured out that it was not me. Anyway, several months have passed. I miss her. I want her back in my life. I know she loves me and misses me, I love her and miss her. I just am not sure how to fix this friendship. Her in-law's won't be happy about it. They seemed to hate her when she got close to me then love her when I left her life. I'm confused. Please help. Do I do this? And if so, How??