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Delgado2023
Jan 26, 2011, 10:17 PM
I recently found out from my girlfriend that our relationship has gotten a little boring.. so I was wondering how I can keep the relationship from being boring... help?

happyansh
Jan 28, 2011, 01:58 PM
Surprise her! Spice things up... pretend like you guys are going on your first date (even though you guys have gone out a brillion times) or just make things plain fun! Maybe join a salsa class together... you guys will have fun.. and it will definitely bring in some steam in the relationship!

MrsLB
Feb 2, 2011, 06:04 PM
Ask her what she would like to do! That should give you some idea. You could possibly make a list of random fun things to do together, stick it in a bag, and next time you are together draw something out of the bag and that is what you do! New experiences make things fun & create memories.

quiteconfused
Feb 21, 2011, 10:49 PM
I agree with happyansh, just surprise her even if she says she hates suprises send her roses or a little note just give her something to look forward too.

LetLoveBleedRed
Jul 31, 2012, 10:23 PM
My boyfriend and I had this issue too, we've been together for a year and a half. I could see how it would get boring though, we never done ANYTHING at the time. But you'd be surprised at the things that can make your relationship better :) We bought puzzles, built things out of legos, lots of small things like that :) Take your girlfriend out for a bike ride, go exploring in the woods, if your imagination is involved, I can almost guarantee things will be less boring :) But then again, I don't know what kind of relationship you guys have. My boyfriend and I act crazy and like little kids. We've even dressed up like Indians and ran around the house attacking each other. We just don't like being serious all the time, THAT'S what gets old.

Simple answer: Just think about things. Do something you normally wouldn't do. It doesn't have to be a trip to another country or anything huge like that. Small things do count, you know :) hope this helped!