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kaylahoskie
Jan 25, 2011, 08:06 PM
I am 18 and want to move out. I plan to stay with my friend for awhile and get a job at the same time. I have some money already saved up. I live in Arizona and I'm a senior. I have all a's and b's. Am I allowed to? I plan to tell them this Saturday. I can't be here anymore, its too much argueing. They treat me like a kid. They over react on the littlest things, I hate it. And I must say they are not my mom and dad, there my aunt and uncle. But I'm 18 so I can leave right? Please help :(

Alty
Jan 25, 2011, 08:14 PM
It's not a matter of can you leave, you're an adult, so yes you can, but can you afford to leave? What if you don't find a job right away? The job market is tough right now, college graduates are having a hard time getting a job at McDonalds, and they have an education.

So, what if you move out and you can't make it on your own? Have you thought about what you'd do then?

Fr_Chuck
Jan 25, 2011, 08:22 PM
AZ law

Format Document (http://www.azleg.state.az.us/FormatDocument.asp?inDoc=/ars/8/00201.htm&Title=8&DocType=ARS)

I would say while it apears you can, why do you want to.

Why not finish high school and get your degree, freedom from parents is often freedom from finishing things .

Also "money saved" do you have a job, are you aware of all the bills you pay ?

MrsLB
Feb 2, 2011, 02:21 PM
You are allowed to, but it's really really hard living on your own... and I am in my mid 20's, married, and my husband has a good job. If there is any way you can suck it up and stay longer I really do think you should. Once you leave that's it. You could stay there a little longer and keep saving, finish school, get a job, etc. Then be more prepared to move out.