Okay, so. I like two guys and I'm not sure whether to stick with the guy I'm with or pursue anything with the new guy.
NJ I have known since before I can remember. We've been best friends since I was around seven or eight. When I was eleven I moved away and haven't seen him since, but we stay in touch really well. He's been my official boyfriend for six months.
RB I just met. I don't know him well, but he goes to my church youth group and is extremely nice and friendly. I think I'm starting to crush on him.
It's normal for me to have multiple crushes at once; I'm one of those girls everybody says is obsessed. However, I always end up not liking the other guys anymore while still liking NJ. I'm not sure if the thing with RB is worth even talking about, considering my history. The only reason I'm really thinking about it is because a friend and I made lists - sort of like dare lists. We each have to complete our five-item list before high school graduation or the other person gets to set us up on a blind date for punishment. Considering our vastly, extremely different guy opinions, that could be disastrous. But one of my items is going out with a guy who is NOT NJ (since I'm always obsessing over him). I've been thinking RB might be a good idea; on the other hand, maybe I should go with someone I just like as a friend. Please help me!

If you only like the other guy to complete the dare list, it isn't worth pursuing.

Hey girl! Your decision really depends on how much you like the guy you are going out with right now. If your boyfriend you have right now is worth it then I would just let your friends put you on a blind date and explain to your boyfriend what happened. I also think that you could explain to your boyfriend what happened and ask him if you could avoid being set up on a blind date.

Thanks for the advice. I think I'll see if my friend will let me off the hook. Since her list requires three dates with one guy (and one date is hard enough for the queen of 'one of the guys'), I think it'll work. :) I don't know why I didn't try that first :\

I'm glad that you found something that worked. Good Luck!! :)

Disagree!!