We want to give it a go. But we feel bit filthy putting our mouth inside there. Do you have any suggestion how can we give each other oral without actually directly putting our mouth there? We were told there are some other ways to do it.

Hello s:

Nahhh. You got to dive right in... I'd rent a couple porn videos to find out if it's for you.

excon

Due to posting restrictions on the Adult Sexuality Board, would you please state your ages?

Yes, by their commit I would have to guess JR HIGH or from a seriously religious background.

Yes sure we are both in our 50,s. Bit late learner.

Hello again, s:

50's huh? Wow. I don't know. Oral sex isn't really fringe any more, if it ever was.. If you haven't tried by now, maybe it's not for you. Especially since you think it's filthy. At your age, you'll NEVER get past that.

excon

we want to give it a go. But we feel bit filthy putting our mouth inside there. Do you have any suggestion how can we give each other oral without actually directly putting our mouth there? We were told there are some other ways to do it.

I don't think that there is anything "filthy" about oral on the person you love and trust.

That's just me...

Not to mention, you will be missing out.

However,If you must go that route, then have him line it with plastic wrap. LOL

You can't go down the freeway... without actually getting on the road.

You know, the OP says "partner", and not boyfriend or husband.

Just for clarification (and I apologize if I am wrong)--OP, are you both female?

When I first ventured into oral sex it was with trepidation and great fear of the unknown .

I thought it may turn out to be a nasty and unsavory thing, but since I had to prove my manhood , and most of my friends at the time had not ventured there I needed to be the one to tell the tale.

The tale turned into an encyclopedia.
When I experienced the level of pleasure and passion this provided to my partners I knew I hit the right spot.

The thoughts of it being dirty, and nasty lasted for upwards of three minutes. Then it was full throttle damn the torpedoes!

All that's required is common good hygiene , and some pointers from a porno or two to get the ball rolling.

Girl on girl is the most instructional I think,
When you own the equipment you know more of how to use it to it's full potential.

I wish you well.

I'm confused by the "putting our mouth INSIDE there" comment.

Given that the OPs screenname is SheHe, and 'inside there' was mentioned, I am going to assume, that she is a girl, and her partner is a girl. As you can't really put your mouth INSIDE a penis

If you both want to try, go for it. You will never know if you will like it if you don't try. Honestly in my own opinion, oral sex is the BEST part of sex. But everyone is different and I have met those who hate it.

Its all about what you and your partner want, not what everyone else things you 'should' do.

Sorry for confusion, No I am not lesbian. I am talking about me and my husband.

I have already said sorry for confusing question. This is about me and my husband, Female and male couple.

Then I don't understand why both of you are reluctant to put your mouth "into" there -

Otherwise you've received good advice.

My only other thought about this would be that I think sex should be more spontaneous and less planned out - but maybe that's just me.

You don't have to put your mouth or tongue into any place you aren't comfortable. Why not start at a place you are and work your way to the area that you aren't. Stop when the feeling of being uncomfortable grows too strong.

Usually if one gets rid of the shrubery it will be more pleasant...



Who likes sucking on a wig after all...

Then I don't understand why both of you are reluctant to put your mouth "into" there -

Otherwise you've received good advice.

My only other thought about this would be that I think sex should be more spontaneous and less planned out - but maybe that's just me.

I absolutely agree with this, I had to spread the rep.

I too believe that sex should more spontaneous. After all what's the fun in just planning it out? Nothing really.

OP, you guys need to feel comfortable with this. If you're not... then don't do it.

I will tell you this though, if not, then you're missing out.

Smoothy s idea of trimming is a good one and it adds a bit of change (if it is a new thing) that can always spice things up a bit.

I will add a little planning may not be a bad thing.
A bottle of wine and a candle lite shower for a little prep may help set the mood for some experimentation.

It may be hard to overcome preconceptions regarding this and may be best approached a step at a slow easy pace.

All in all I think you will be happy with the rewards this can bring.

I wish you well

The OP and her partner want to give each other oral without "putting their mouths there." The feel a bit "filthy."

I don't think it's going to happen and/or it's going to be a good experience.

They both have the same mindset and so...

Hope I'm wrong (for their sake).

Well, considering she posted this on the 23rd, and it is now the 28th, do you think they found a way to "put their mouths in there"?

I don't know... that was unuasual language to use for someone that old... at least based on the people I've known.

I don't know.....that was unuasual language to use for someone that old....at least based on the people I've known.

Yes. That thought crossed my mind as well.

Absolutely.