Mimip
Jan 21, 2011, 04:42 PM
Sorry if this is really long, but please bear with me. I really need some advice...
All right, so I've been dating this guy for little over a year and we've had many ups and downs. (jealousy being a major factor) I love him with all my heart and he says he does too, but the biggest issue is he hides my existence from his family. He doesn't let me associate with anyone that might know his brother because he's afraid they'll tell his brother about us and look down on him. But recently, he's been bringing home another girl for "dance practices" that usually last 4 hours to a day. I really feel insulted and hurt that he has the nerve to bring her home to his family but not me. He and this girl used to be friends but lost contact from some fight I don't know about. Now they're "great" friends again and he defends her whenever I say something somewhat rude. I don't think it's right that he thinks it's all right to bring her home, be with her for hours each day, and find it unnacceptable for me to be with my guy friends (I do not get along with girls very well). Now he is saying we should take "time apart" to think and take a break to understand each other more. I think that is bull****. So I'm asking you, reader, what do you think I should so? How should I feel about this? What is your opinion on this? Please help me, I really need another persons input.
All right, so I've been dating this guy for little over a year and we've had many ups and downs. (jealousy being a major factor) I love him with all my heart and he says he does too, but the biggest issue is he hides my existence from his family. He doesn't let me associate with anyone that might know his brother because he's afraid they'll tell his brother about us and look down on him. But recently, he's been bringing home another girl for "dance practices" that usually last 4 hours to a day. I really feel insulted and hurt that he has the nerve to bring her home to his family but not me. He and this girl used to be friends but lost contact from some fight I don't know about. Now they're "great" friends again and he defends her whenever I say something somewhat rude. I don't think it's right that he thinks it's all right to bring her home, be with her for hours each day, and find it unnacceptable for me to be with my guy friends (I do not get along with girls very well). Now he is saying we should take "time apart" to think and take a break to understand each other more. I think that is bull****. So I'm asking you, reader, what do you think I should so? How should I feel about this? What is your opinion on this? Please help me, I really need another persons input.