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Dancingkween26
Jan 20, 2011, 10:10 PM
So, here's the story. I'm a freshman in high school, and I met this guy. His name is Jason. I thought he was cute, so I told one of my friends. She told him later, and he was like "cool"We fast danced together at an informal dance and he gave me his number! We text (to this day) all day long, even in school. They were really flirty too. So I liked him and I sort of thought he liked me. I had a friend ask him over text, and he said he didn't like anybody at the moment. I txted him later And apologized for my friends actions, and we agreed that if either of us ever liked the other, that they would say so. And that were really good friends. So I'm kind of heartbroken And all but he has no clue, any ideas on how to win him over as a boyfriend??

Stringer
Jan 20, 2011, 10:18 PM
One thing that I can tell you is that chasing him probably will not work. Most guys like to do the chasing themselves.

Stringer

tinkerbell96
Jan 23, 2011, 11:43 AM
Continue being friends, and maybe one day he will come around and like you too.

sharper11
Feb 2, 2011, 02:44 PM
"Win him over as a Boyfriend"

Do not try this. You cannot "WIN" someone's feelings. Either the feelings are there or they are not.

If you really like this kid, tell him... yourself. Not by text, not by email, not through a friend. It take s a lot of guts to do something like that. Be ready for any answer. Good or Bad, but keep your head up either way. If the guy likes you (as a friend or more than a friend) he'll show you respect regardless of the answer.

I say this because I wasted a lot of time "chasing" 1 person through high school, and wish I would have just spoke up, been shot down and moved on ;)

Best of luck.