I've been with my man 11 years his drinking is tearing us apart I can't leave I've no where to go an no money, when he's in the pub, he acts like I'm not there,he staires at other women all the time, its makein my life hell,I don't no if I can cope anymore *** help xxx

You better find you somewhere to go then. Depending on a drunk to make you happy, and take care of you is a fools game.

Don't settle for a drunk to be your man, you can find someone so much better. Don't depend on a man to decide whether you can survive, I'm sure you're an independent woman.

I agree with the others. It might seem as if it's hard to leave, but he possibly can't be your only choice. But even if, if you depend on this drunken man then eventually he will leave you before you leave him, and it will be worse that way if you don't get out as soon as possible. Sorry to say. Hope everything turns out okay.

-Crazychick-