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Mikelreal
Jan 20, 2011, 01:14 AM
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Okay, here is the problem. My girlfriend, we've been in a relationship for like 3 months now. It all started the day she came to my room and kind of asked me out, because we didn't use to talk. Two days later we had sex, and became inseparable, always having sex.

Well, now she has suddenly changed. That is after we all went home for holidays, she doesn't return my call or reply my messages. I asked her, and she told me she has been sick for weeks and I have not heard from her.

I decided to call her best friend, and was told she was never sick. Before all this started, she keeps telling me about her other boyfriend and how she is trying to breakup wit him. She keeps asking for more time. With all these happening I think there is something wrong somewhere.

I tried breaking up with her some weeks back because of the other guy, but she cried, and begged for more time. Now I just don't trust her anymore. I text her this morning and told her I don't care anymore, whatever she is doing is her f~inq business, and to my surprise she didn't reply.. im just tired.


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answerme_tender
Jan 20, 2011, 08:37 AM
Why bother with someone that you do NOt trust. You nave made right choice by moving on with your life. Besides, sounds like she was cheating on some other guy while being with you!!

Take care

talaniman
Jan 20, 2011, 10:10 AM
I would be tired to, if I was being played by a manipulative female, who lies, and cheats, as she bounces back, and forth between you, and another guy. You did the right thing by getting her out of your life, and keeping her out.

Devorameira
Jan 20, 2011, 12:34 PM
You made a big mistake getting involved with someone who has a boyfriend.

It seems obvious that she's feeding you a line of bull, and has no intention of breaking up with him, so you have no other choice than to stop contacting her, change your phone number if you have to to prevent her from calling you, and move on.

Mikelreal
Jan 21, 2011, 03:03 AM
She keeps calling and sending some B.S text messages. Am not good in breaking up.have never had to break up with anyone before.. Change my number?have been using it for like forever,cant change it because of one A.H. Yeah you right @devor.I made a very stupid mistake. I just have to ignore evrything she throws at me. Thanks evryone!