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JilleyWilly
Jan 19, 2011, 06:11 PM
My bestie, Lauren, is a beautiful girl. She is prettier then me, but not so much that people can't notice me or anything, but she is prettier.She is in love with a guy named Trevor, they're going to grow up, get married,have babies, yada yada. I'm ever happy for them. BUT a guy named Brian likes her, and for a while I was fine with that too. And then I fell in love with him. I told her and she said she wanted this to work out for us so much, and then said something long and poetic about her and Trevor. So she texted him and asked him who he liked, he said only her so she asked why and he said she is beautiful, smart, funny and a Christian (yes I'm one too, we go to a Christian school, that's not uber important, just a fact) so she said she knew that another girl liked him and he asked who, but she didn't tell.
Now, I'm asking for the right way to go with this:
I wrote him a note, I typed it and didn't sign it, but I'm sure he'll guess it's me...

Our friend Emily said I should just tell him, because people start to like you if you know you like them...

I could write him another note and just come right out and say who I am in the note

Just let it happen how it will happen

Or any other solution you come up with.
PLEASE HELP

adviceishere
Jan 20, 2011, 10:31 AM
Nice to see someone brave enough to take that plunge :) yes I think you should send him the note confessing your love to him LOL but firstly you need to really prepare yourself, how will you feel if you don't get the outcome your hoping to get? If you feel you will be absolutely heartbroken and never get over it then you need to REALLY prepare, think of all the possibilities that can happen including the bad, because if it fails you will have prepared and not feel so bad about it but then again it may work. Just don't expect too much, good luck :)

JilleyWilly
Jan 22, 2011, 01:47 PM
Thanks, which note, the "secret" one that I typed or the new one I signed?

adviceishere
Jan 23, 2011, 02:55 AM
Well he will never be sure if its secret, he might have an idea that its you but he won't say anything if he's not fully sure, so maybe a signed one :)

JilleyWilly
Jan 23, 2011, 03:23 PM
Cool, thanks 4 being awesome

adviceishere
Jan 26, 2011, 08:22 AM
Oh and please let me know how you get on! :D