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Trouble123
Jan 19, 2011, 12:48 PM
I'm 13 years old. And me and my boyfriend have been dated for about 2 months, we used to be best friends,but lately we have been aguring a lot.I mean a lot.. we've got each other in tears, but every time we see each other, we get the spark, I still get the bufferflies in my belly from the first time I met him.. I love him, but I really can't get the pain of our agurements... Should I End It? :S:S:S xx

stinaann
Feb 14, 2011, 11:53 AM
Hunn, you're 13, "i love you" is only a phrase at your age, as well as at mine. If you two can't get along, its not worth it. If you can make it threw the arguing, then great <3 Honestly, until you're both mature and can handle each others flaws and faults, then the relationship won't be the greatest. Just sit down with him and talk it out, or try at least. Keep yelling and voice raising at an absolute minimum. I wish you luck (:

justcurious55
Feb 14, 2011, 12:14 PM
I agree, at 13, "i love you" means little. 13 is just simply too young for serious relationships. Before you start with the "but we're so mature for our ages" and all that, we've all been there and thought we knew it all at your age. Break it off. See if the friendship can be salvaged. Focus on friendships and learning to communicate without arguing. Have fun on group dates. Wait until you're older for a serious boyfriend. Things will go smoother later on if you wait on work on general life skills now.