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emilybeast
Jan 13, 2011, 05:38 PM
Hey,
I would like to get more attention from boys, besides them asking me if they can borrow my notes. One boy in particular doesn't seem to pay attention to anyone except the "popular" girls and I really like him and have a bunch of classes with him. Thing is he's "cool" and he has friends in all the classes that we have together so he talks to them. HELP!

joypulv
Jan 13, 2011, 06:47 PM
Next time a guy asks to borrow your notes, smile mysteriously and say 'I don't think so... ' and walk away.
It shows you aren't so easy to use. It evokes admiration.
And don't fall for some guy who is cool and knows how to sweet talk you out of your notes either.
You must be smart, so someday you will be around men who appreciate you for your knowledge and interests.
There are probably boys like that already in school, but they aren't the cool ones either, and may not know how to get you interested in them.
What is cool anyway? A lot of times it's just words words words that don't mean anything, just banter, goofing around, not what counts. Or it can be those who put other people down, or tease, or flirt.
Not all that is bad except for putting people down, but being nice is what lasts a million years.
Having a talent or skill or interest makes you much cooler too, and it will give you a solid base when love fails, as it almost always does at times.

diobish
Jan 18, 2011, 08:33 PM
Just be yourself and not anotherone they will notice if you are fakin personality if you are yourself yooou would find someone that love you by yourself:)

---good luck----

gvallejos103329
Feb 10, 2011, 05:19 PM
Well... I would just give up. Or wear a bra a couple sizes to big... boys like boobs.

adviceishere
Feb 11, 2011, 02:07 AM
I disagree with Diobish, there is absoloutely no reason to sex up yourself in order to get attention, it will never be the right attention and especially not for a school child! You do not want this kind of attention Emily and please do not act on this advice, be yourself, you don't need the "cool" guy or anyone with a label, you will find a nice boyfriend at a stage when its right and he will like you for you and vice versa, they will come and go as you get older and you will then understand and realise your own "type" and I can guarantee he won't be anything like the "cool one" but you will like him for him, you should never change for anyone or sex yourself up for attention, its not you... would you like a boy to fall for a fake you? Or the real you?. im pretty sure your answer would be the real you. Good luck, I'm sure you're a beautiful intelligent girl.

adviceishere
Feb 11, 2011, 02:08 AM
Oh my bad! I wrote diobish by mistake, very sorry, I do agree with diobish but I do not agree with Gvallejos

adviceishere
Feb 11, 2011, 02:12 AM
Hey sorry I used your name by mistake in my answer, if you take a look at the comment under my answer it explains my mistake, sorry very sorry, I don't know how to edit answers LOL

diobish
Feb 11, 2011, 11:58 AM
Its okaay :)